Hey all,

I'm not experienced and have had confidence issues forever. Recently returned home after my degree and caught up with a friend from primary school (we kept in touch). Long story short, she's experienced, got adventurous, real pretty and is giving me major signs she likes me

I like her, but I'm afraid of escalating because I have man boobs. I've always been self conscious and sweaty, so I started wearing an undershirt a while back which made it seem like I had a normal chest and boosted my confidence in everyday life. If there's a situation where she touches me firmly or if the shirt comes off, hey presto moobs - and she knows I'm a fraud. We haven't even kissed, I missed a golden opportunity (she even called me out on it later and said we should meet up again).

I'm considering not meeting her again - to not disappoint her / embarrass myself. Similar thing has happened with other women, where I was so afraid of trying I didn't know they were interested until they lose interest. I don't have the means to get the gyno removal surgery just yet.

What can I do?

TLDR: Low confidence average guy with moobs, started wearing undershirt to have a normal looking chest (+sweat). I'm afraid of escalating with this girl who really likes me because she'll know I was hiding my moobs. What do I do?