First off is this is meant for a different community let me know so I can delete and move it there. It’s situational based but also a general question of how to act on coffee dates after being intimate at a club.

Went to the club started talking to a girl, started dancing, she put my hands on her waist and then put them on her chest and neck and made me basically feel her up about 5 minutes into dancing, didn’t make out but it was very intimate. She even moved her hair out of the way and tilted her head expecting me to kiss her neck but I didn’t give her everything. Got her number and texted that night until 5 am. She told me she was practically SOBER during that entire interaction. (Had 2 beers and stopped drinking at midnight). Now we’re meeting for coffee and I am so confused on how I should act. Most people drunkenly make out and grind n stuff but this girl was not under a lot of or any influence whatsoever. I’m just imagining that the sexual tension on our date is going to be through the roof. Would it be smart to try to escalate and if it’s going well invite her back for an “afternoon in watching movies” if she is free the rest of the day?

This is my second coffee date and the first one I didn’t escalate much but there was some light touching (grabbed her hand and asked about her jewelry, asked about piercings and tattoos, some intimate topics) but she was very much wanting to hang out again. Based off that experience I plan to continue that and see where it goes but just looking to see if anyone has been in a similar situation.