If any of you remember, I met this baseball fan (HB7) on OkC a couple weeks back. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hvbsc/fr_kclose_baseball_fan_at_a_bar/

The first date was at a dive bar, and it went pretty well. Quick k-close at the end. We've been texting intermittently every week, since schedules aren't working out. It's funny, I'm really unsure about this one and don't necessarily want to pull the trigger, but she gives some obvious IOIs. I always figured it's good to practice, and I probably regret more of the things I don't do, than the things I do...

And seeing how I fucked up w/ a long fb message with my last FR: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/i11t8/fr_first_time_solo_at_bar_since_starting_seddit/

I figured I'd need some practice. If I f'd it up with her, I didn't care.

  • Me: Hey HB7! This is jamonman. I was recently at a bar and strangers kept saying I looked familiar...I think my evil twin has been out and about. How's your day been?
  • HB: U changed ur #?
  • HB: [10 mins later] ???
  • Me: Was on a work call for a sec. Nope, this is just another number I have! I use both.
  • HB: Lol! Ok cool.
  • HB: Im good. Heading to [some place] to hang out with a friend.
  • HB: Then to Vegas tomorrow! :D
  • HB: What are you up to?
  • Me: It's only 3pm! Skipping out on work early? :) seeing that, there's no way you'd behave in Vegas. :)
  • HB: Summer hours!!!
  • HB: Its the bestest!!!
  • Me: Headed to [the city] to meet a business partner tonight, then to a friend's party at 10pm.
  • Me: Only teachers have summer hours. Admit it, you're just playing hooky. :)
  • HB: Nice!
  • HB: My Ceo was walking out the door with me
  • HB: Lol
  • Me: Haha. Well, I was going to see if you were free tomorrow night, but you can't miss Vegas. :)
  • HB: Absolutely not! Vegas takes priority
  • HB: You need to book it earlier with my secretary
  • HB: Lol
  • Me: Yes. Debauchery usually does. :) no worries. Some other time. Have fun!
  • HB: Thx! You enjoy your wkend. The weather will be gorgeous!

So while she made it relatively easy, I didn't f' up in a couple ways. I followed the advice of how to do text game by mentioning her name, an anecdote, and then asking her how she's doing. Then teasing her about various things. I was unsure about saying there's no way she's behave in vegas, but eh, I guess that sexualized it a bit. And then maintaining frame and not caring if it worked out when she said you need to book it w/ my secretary. Before, I might have tried to work out another time right there and then. But I think this way, it seems like it's more of a missed opportunity for her.