This other post over here reminded me that I've also hit a plateau: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mi43z/mpuas_of_seddit_pics_can_you_help_me_out_with/

I'm much better at opening now, and though it still takes me a little bit of time to get into state, once I do, I don't have problems with approaches or conversation.

Somehow, I'm able to pull day 2, but not often day 3's. And I can't seem to get them to chase me. They reply if I text, but if I don't text, I usually don't hear from them. It's kinda frustrating since I felt like we made a connection, but they refuse to lift a finger. And if I don't, it just seems to languish.

I'm doing the usual kino and whatnot, but something's not quite right. If I had to put a finger on it, it's the push/pull and the sexual tension--or the lack thereof. I'm not leaving them wanting more, as the other thread implies.

I'm afraid I'm not quite sure how to do it, since it's not something I do habitually or naturally, and I don't have role models. I guess what I'm looking for are some examples, since people say "do push/pull" or "build sexual tension", but I have no idea what that looks like. I know Tofu talks about physically just pulling or pushing her away. I do that at times, where she says something I don't agree with, and I tell her that we can't be friends and just physically push her away.

Or another one I've heard is to tease her about how she's trying to seduce you, and make everything she says sound perverted. This I find harder to do, since I don't normally do this in my day to day life. What are some examples?

I've tried talking about things that we would do in the future, and talk about it in an emotional way, but I haven't had too much luck with it yet (perhaps it's not quite emotional enough).

Or maybe I need to stay away from pal-like conversations like her hopes and dreams (my god, I stay away from all talk of her work now), and more on bullshit conversations like, "Kill, marry, fuck" or "Would you rather be club an old lady in the knees or a baby seal to death"

Are there other ways to leave her wanting more? What are some examples? Thanks