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| 16 | Theory on Why Most Girls Don't Seem Interested in Hooking Up at Bars and ClubsI remember reading on here, "Beginners worry about what to say, Veterans worry about logistics" | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Easy Recipes for Men to impress Women?It's all about the plating and garnish, if you want to impress her. Most people's palates aren't that developed, and you can more easily impress with visual display. Take a dish that you do moderately well, and then plate it by using lots of white space, and learn to cut a couple of garnishes, and it'll impress the hell out of her. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Don't have a problem opening, but need explicit examples of leaving her wanting more--getting her to chase me.Thanks. When I think about my more successful girls, it just seems to slide pretty quickly into being naked together, and usually it happens by day 3. When she's really interested, she makes it easy, though I really have no idea how it happened. As for push/pull, I'll have to keep it in mind. I think I do that better when in my mind, I'm really not sure about the girl, so I have this tension. Whereas with girls I've already decided on, I don't have that tension, so I'm always trying to pull. I n… | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Don't have a problem opening, but need explicit examples of leaving her wanting more--getting her to chase me.Right. I kinda feel that as well. At first, I wondered if it was that there was attraction, but not comfort, so maybe spending more time on the girl to connect would have worked. However, it doesn't seem like that's the case, per my limited experience as of late. It seems like though she has a great time conversing or joking around, the good time wasn't unique enough. There wasn't enough intrigue or something. There's something about me that's too expendable, or too much of a commodity that she … | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Don't have a problem opening, but need explicit examples of leaving her wanting more--getting her to chase me.What do you consider, the point? Taking them home and f-closing? I'm kinoing and I'm specific about why we're here (If she says can I bring a friend, I say no). However, it seems like during the course of the date, though I'm making them laugh, and they seem to be having a good time, it doesn't seem like I'm doing something right, as either they don't want to come up, or just generally seem amused, had a good time, but disinterested. I've had times before where it seems like there's a girl that'… | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 08:36 AM |
| 3 | [X-Post] Women's Perspective on Being Approachedfrogma's exactly right here, and I'll second this. Though you can definitely be way too creepy, worrying about it isn't going to help you any, especially as a recovering AFC. Crossing the line of being creepy is probably much further than you think. And in addition, the actual act of touching isn't creepy--it's only creepy when it's done in a way that doesn't make her comfortable. Which means, it's not you that's creepy. It's your game or social interaction that was creepy. However! If you worry… | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 05:53 PM |
| 2 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...I'm still not very good at push/pull. The most I figured out is to hold her hand, and then drop it before she does. Or alternately tease her and then not. But it seems like I'm usually just pulling. What are some good examples of push and pull? | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 08:24 PM |
| 3 | So I notice there's no good seduction material and guides about first dates.To help the original OP, and to pile on and add some tidbits from myself: I also try to have dates with multiple parts to them, because it gives the impression that she's "going somewhere". You notice how sweeping movie epics go from place to place with a sense of adventure? It's the same sort of thing. However, the places I take them to are coffeeshops, froyo, etc. Doesn't have to be anything fancy. She's here to see you, not the place. If she is, you did something wrong. Also, if at any point,… | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 05:53 PM |
| 1 | A new blog about sex and seduction, written from the perspective of a young femaleI've never gotten laid climbing. I must have been doing it wrong. No one talked to me, and I never had a reason to talk to anyone else. I guess I had always viewed it as a personal, meditative sport, which apparently is wrong, since you can totally get laid. | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm poor as fuck, how do I practice?If someone asks you why you're not drinking, just say you don't drink. But in a way that's non-judgmental. I've found that people sometimes take you not drinking as a sign they shouldn't be. Or if all else fails, just tell them you'll get started later. They'll be too drunk to be keeping track. All my first dates are cheap, unimaginative, and easy. coffee. tea. drinks. bubble tea. No use putting in a lot of effort into a girl that may or may not be into you. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 12:30 AM |
| 4 | The Magic Pill to getting better at Pickup FASTI'd have to second this. Writing FRs are really helpful for self-reflection. Before I just thought I did pretty well, but after reading about seddit and doing some FR, I realized that I make a lot of mistakes, and any tail I've had were really just a result of bumbling through. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 08:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Had fun, but didn't manage to k-close.haha, as you described the spooning and what not, I'm like--wait, that's not in the car... | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Had fun, but didn't manage to k-close.You mean right before you get in the car? I've tried that, and that's awkward too (with another girl). She's like, your side of the car is on the other side. What are you doing? I will have to get use to kissing her as a reason. I really hate going in for it when I'm not sure how well it went, but I should just do that more. | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 09:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Had fun, but didn't manage to k-close.Ouch. Haha. I'm in my early 30's. She's in her early 20's. Usually, I only know if I'm attracting the girl when she's giving IOIs, usually in the form of a look, or touching. I couldn't tell since we both had shades on. And she wasn't initiating touch. We did talk about things and different stories, but I think I probably didn't do enough of a deep dive to help her build comfort. I did tease her quite a bit, and at one point, she remarked, "You must have a skewed perception of me." At the time, … | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 09:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time with a wing last week, 3 #-closeswhat do you mean? I guess with the two HB9s, it was forced, since we didn't really take a liking to each other. The other two were pretty good interactions, and they gave it willingly at the time. And the HB4 was asking me for it. Usually, my followups aren't bad if I've met them at a house party. But so far, the followups for clubs is pretty low for me. Which specific posts are you suggesting for followups? | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 09:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.haha, they left. I didn't leave. Anyway, there were better sets that night, or other nights. This was just one of the bad ones. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 09:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.No. That was the entire conversation. That was one of the worst sets that night. Didn't manage to control the conversation. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 09:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.It was a short conversation, no more than 2 to 3 minutes. It was just glaringly different from all my other approaches that night. Once you've seen real interest, and real disinterest, it's pretty interesting/amusing to see and pinpoint that exact moment when someone loses interest. That said, a lot of it was me answering it honestly. And the honesty there was a lack of confidence in measuring up to her standards, when in reality, I can't say I care that much that I go to church or volunteer. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 09:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.Instead of saying "wow that's interesting, I'd love to join you next time you go, give me your number" you basically apologized for not already volunteering and gave up, assuming she wasn't interested. (at that point, your assessment was probably correct)" You are right, in the sense of me feeling that I'm just already in the hole before I started. A lot of it is just attitude and stance, and I let her choose the frame and context rather than moving it to something else. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 09:27 PM |
| 2 | [text-FR] Lunch dates are a one-way street to being the mayor of friend zoneIt's always a hard balance to strike between showing interest and walking away. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [text-FR] Lunch dates are a one-way street to being the mayor of friend zoneIt is way too much. I do think she's cute, and I think I cut her some slack since she's young. But now I'm far less invested since it's taken so long, and I have other options on the table. I just said I was busy. I didn't tell her I had a date. Funny thing is, I just got notified that date got canceled. Usually just saying you're busy is enough. Most girls don't inquire if it's a date. When she does, you can just say 'maybe' with a grin, and that'll be enough. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)"I should submit you and your friend's photo to Gay's Plus Magazine" | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)"Is this where you strip me down and tie me up?" | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)Yeah, how is this a shit test? It seems like a regular get to know you thing that springboards into fun topics, and DHV stories | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)"Why would i want to do that? You're like, ninth in line." | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:39 PM |
| 8 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)Sounds a bit supplicating. | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)"Yeah, but can you eat more pie than me? That's what counts in life" | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:31 PM |
| -7 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)"I know! My doctor prescribed me these funny pills, but I'm off my medication" | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)"So you want me to pick the one with the least brain?" This probably won't work without a shit-eating grin | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Why dating multiple women will help your game...Well, as someone that spent six years being single and dating serially, let me tell you, doing it that way doesn't work. When you don't have options, you end up concentrating on just one, and in doing that, you appear unattractive to the woman you're concentrating on. Part of the reason why we do this is because women are attracted to it. They're attracted to it because a male that has choice is usually a proxy for them being a high value male. And what girl doesn't want a high value male? One o… | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 10:30 PM |
| 2 | LR: It's all coming together!Yeah, and when you think about it, since he's quadriplegic, he can't actually escalate himself. He has to tell her to do shit, and she has to do it. Imagine if you have to overcome LMR using only just words. Much kudos. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 01:37 AM |
| 2 | LR: It's all coming together!Congrats bro. To think you were kinda down last week. Way to go. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 01:36 AM |
| 1 | [mini FR] Approaching a set then isolatingI'll move my way to Set 1 in due time. In hindsight, I could have done Set 2. I just didn't know what to do about the AFCs just hovering about about 2 to 3 feet away. But now, I see that I could have just gotten her attention, and as soon as she turned away from them, they could do nothing, and I was much closer so by physicality, I was in, and they were out. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Where do you pick up smart girls?join a couple meetups and work your way out from there. You might have to go just meet people in general, and not just girls to work your way there...? | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 04:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Gaming friend turns into her pulling in friendsYour assessment is probably correct. I have only recently (in the last two years) started to learn how to assert myself. Hrm, I didn't think that I had problems telling her no, but I can see that now. I just didn't want her to show up tired. I'd rather get her fresh, cuz if she was tired, I was just going to say no. Actually, in the last year or so, I've said no to her more than the other way around. It's only recently that I decided to try and game her. I'm not sure how this got turned around s… | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 04:12 PM |
| 22 | Where do you pick up smart girls?Usually, through other smart people. If you have a bunch of smart friends, chances are, they know other smart people. | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 03:43 PM |
| 2 | So I met this girl the other day, is it a good idea to bring her to a reddit meetup for the first time we hangout?No. Unless you're in college, and girls like to 'hang out' together in a group first or something, you don't really need a satellite of penis swirling around you two. | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 06:35 PM |
| 1 | [Mini-realization] Just play it cool, and sometimes her silence is not always her rejecting you. She's got other things going on in her life. You do too.I find that this only works if your last interaction was really good. I do a thought experiment. If I'm 90 to 100% sure I can get another date, then I'll refrain from texting her, and put her on a holding pattern while I work on the other girls. So far, it seems that she comes a running eventually. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 06:24 AM |
| 1 | [Mini-realization] Just play it cool, and sometimes her silence is not always her rejecting you. She's got other things going on in her life. You do too.I say abundance, because if there are multiple girls that are all good candidates, I'm not hung up on one. So instead of waiting in agony for a day or two before calling. I'm actually busy for a day or two before I can get back to her. When she wants to do a friday, I can actually say, no, that doesn't work, I'm busy [on another date]. You'll have to take a weds slot. And if she flakes or it doesn't work out, I'm busy doing other things, or thinking about other girls that if I had hooked her har… | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 06:23 AM |
| 1 | [Mini-realization] Just play it cool, and sometimes her silence is not always her rejecting you. She's got other things going on in her life. You do too.Close, but no cookie for you. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 06:19 AM |
| 16 | When in doubt, Don't do anything.It's a fine balance. You just need to calibrate it for the situation. But I'd say, when in doubt, keep it short, keep it succinct. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What are people's thoughts on doing "recon" before a date? Helps? Hurts? Doesn't matter? What is a horse shoe?If she's an OkC date, I'll brush up on some stuff. But generally, I go in there cold, or just semi-cold. I don't want to slip on knowing something I shouldn't know. I'd only get some stuff fresh in my mind as a way to lead the conversation if I can't find something to connect on. It's the nuclear option. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Whats a good response to "how big is your dick?""You wanna find out? Let's get outta here now." Say it with a shit-eating grin. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 05:17 PM |
| 1 | [text FR] Failed to rope her in for a date after a #-close from before.Yeah. I really paused with that. I got the tip about saying "Hey, didn't hear from you, and made other plans" from a post here on seddit not too long ago. However, I felt like I had backed myself into a corner by saying I was going anyway (which I am), but then I wasn't sure what to say. Thanks, I think your text is better. I'll keep that in mind. I really wasn't trying to be snippy, but I think it may have easily come off that way. So I did get a final reply from her, late last night. Updated i… | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Trying out Mystery Method from Revelations for the First Time; F-close & #Close another girl (same night)What were some of the push pulls? I'm pretty bad at them, so I'm wondering where you interject them? | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 12:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] House party with #-closeI say I was terrible that night because of the previous couple blowouts (they didn't completely ignore me, but I was not the master of conversation there). And looking back, the only reason I was successful with the HB8 at all was social proof. I defn lacked fun conversation that night, even though I was in a great state. I need to remember to agree and escalate more often. At the time, I was just thinking in my head that HB7.5 is really jostling me. But I think she kinda warmed up after we were… | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] House party with #-closeHaha. Well, I thought about this afterwards. I suppose I could have asked to use the bathroom to go inside. However, my roommate and the HB7.5 weren't into each other, so even if HB8 and I got with it, what are they going to do? I guess he drives home without me, and HB7.5 goes to bed...but chances are, she could have cockblocked the whole thing. The roommate did invite them out for a slice, but they declined. I thought that given I only got to a certain comfort level by the time the night ended… | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 06:17 PM |
| 3 | I am sick of tired of girls that act like they are into me and then I kiss them and they are gone...Perhaps along these lines, you need to pre-empt objections women might have when they think about her future with you, either as a g/f or something else. Kinda in the same way that sometimes guys say 'You know you're not getting lucky tonight, right?' before the girl has a chance to say it. It alleviates the pressure they to have sex. So if you're able to figure out the majority of the objections about dating a guy in a wheelchair (I recall you're a quadriplegic?), then you might be able to head… | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 09:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First time solo at bar since starting sedditHaha, that was wit getting in the way, I suppose. I think my thought process at the time was to remind her of some of the things we joked about, and then bring up a conversation topic we can talk about. But I suppose I should have just asked her for #? Or just said, It was good to meet you. I tend to have AA with day game. At these things, AA's not my problem. It's usually not knowing how to sexualize the conversation and not knowing how to isolate. Before seddit, I had no idea these were my pro… | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 12:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First time solo at bar since starting sedditI think I'm use to 'normal' conversation, where you talk over coffee and get to know people. I think I do well there, since I can usually get a 2nd or 3rd date doing that and joking around. It had always mystified me what in the world people talk about in clubs and bars, since you can barely hear each other. After reading seddit, I think you just pull up cocky-funny stuff, and just sexual innuendos (or perhaps overt ones). Thanks for the advice. I'll try it out next time I'm at one of these. | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 12:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First time solo at bar since starting sedditHow do you pull the trigger quicker? I found that at the time, I simply didn't make it a goal to go find her again, since I felt like I had nothing to say to her. But at the same time, how to do it without coming off as desperate? I guess eject and come back? | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 05:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time solo at bar since starting sedditYes. Although admittedly, I couldn't really find a conversation spark with the girl, and she wasn't exactly giving blatant IOIs--more like come get me...if you can. I guess that counts. I've just never really seen it (or perhaps never noticed) it before. I'll keep the msgs shorter. I'll read the link, thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 05:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First time solo at bar since starting sedditI've never heard of an H cup. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time solo at bar since starting sedditI'm surprised she stayed with you the whole time. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 02:59 PM |
| 2 | FR: Terrible night turned successHey man, props. | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 07:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] k-close baseball fan at a barAhh, tricky tricky. Well, too bad for her, now I think she's busy that weekend. | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 05:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First daygame kiss close"they'll eat you up" Careful that this doesn't work very well for Chinese American girls. Unless you can tell the difference just by looking, you have a good chance of blowing yourself out. But if they're defn foreign, then it works quite well. | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Did my respect for a fellow man kill my chances?Yeah, I have this same problem too. Unless there are telltale signs that they're together, I should just approach and see what's up. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Just Curious about you guysindifferent geek. Had plenty of female friends. Dated one or two, but then had a long long dry spell during college and a few years after that. Sure, I regretted not figuring all of this out earlier. | /r/seduction | 04/06/11 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Mini-realization: Get her to chase youOh, yes to clarify, you need to be doing the chasing at first. Aka, I do well on the 1st and 2nd dates. But after you have her hooked, aka, you're 95 to 100% sure she'd want a 3rd date, you let her chase you a bit. You need to do the initial work to get her worked up, and then give her room to come to you for a bit. | /r/seduction | 01/06/11 07:04 AM |
| 2 | The BEST possible text you can send when she flakes (doesn't reply to you asking her out)Hey HB7! I didn't hear from you, so other plans filled up for Mon and Tues of this week. Let's [do that activity we talked about] some other time soon. [They] won this time, but we'll get 'em next time! haha Happy [some holiday] Day! Hope you at least got out in the sun. :) That was what I went with, and it worked pretty well. She replied with a summary of her weekend, and why she's busy this week, and asked me what my schedule looks like. | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 06:04 PM |
| 64 | What do you do when you get a boner when making outWhen I was in HS, I use to think that girls would freak out if they felt it. But now, I know that, esp when making out, it's a compliment to them when they feel it. Just let her feel it. It's the equivalent of you finding out that she's all wet for you. If that turned you on, your boner does the same thing for her. | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Seddit... what makes a woman approachable?Lots of wisdom in a few words. OP take heed. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 05:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Gamer girl date with not enough kino and rapport.I think our online flirting wasn't too bad, but it went on for too long, since she had a deadline for to finish, and I kept naming times, instead of negotiating, which she told me it annoyed her a little. I am rather new, but I'm not all AFC chump. I think it's like reggieband said, I didn't calibrate correctly, and she's not exactly a club girl, so adjustment of the game to fit the girl is essential. I just hadn't met this type of girl before. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 09:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gamer girl date with not enough kino and rapport.Yes, I think calibration has to be used along with kino. It's just that most of us have grown up not touching women that we tell ourselves to kino aggressively as a mental hack to kino just the right amount. I think the attraction was probably there a little--that I had her curious, and we had good conversation. But I think she's a bit of an anomaly. She didn't seriously date until her 20's, and she mostly hangs out with gamer guys. And any guy she's dated were people that she was friends with f… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 09:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gamer girl date with not enough kino and rapport.I chalked this one up more to her awkwardness than my approach. I've just never had someone say that when I went in for it. It mainly surprised me, since our conversation seemed to be pretty good, but just didn't have enough time to warm her up to the point of constant kino. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 09:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gamer girl date with not enough kino and rapport.No worries. Abundance mentality is in full swing, ever since I met the lot of you a couple months back. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 09:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gamer girl date with not enough kino and rapport.Thanks for your reply. I did start touching her early. I didn't do an arm around the shoulder simply because I couldn't get her comfortable and to open up. I have to admit, I'm not as good at sexualizing things, but will subtly do it next time. I'm also bad at push/pull, which I'll be doing more of. I've had women say qualifying things to me before, and I'm never sure what to make of it, so I usually just end up ignoring it. That's probably why I don't keep it in my repertoire. Qualification is … | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 09:39 PM |
| 5 | [FR] After the rain comes the sunGood show. I wouldn't have thought to ask 'what you're better than me', though I probably think you meant, 'what, you're better dancer than me?' Sometimes, it's not at all about you. Lesson learned, good FR. | /r/seduction | 22/05/11 08:25 PM |
| 2 | A quality youtube playlist on Frame Control - compiled by StyleI only watched it through once, but it seems like frame control has a lot to do with knowing who you are, what you deem is important, and what you value. Once you know this, it becomes more apparent what other people are trying to do to change that, and you can cut through it, and address the issue at hand, rather than let people twist and turn the situation. The ones that come to mind in particular is Jon Stewart's appearance on cross fire, Clinton's interview, as well as Tom Cruise getting spr… | /r/seduction | 22/05/11 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there a "time limit" on girls, before you generally get friendzoned?This won't work if he can't read people well yet. It takes a while to learn how to read people if you're just getting started. I'd say kino-escalate (but even then, you'd need to be able to read her comfort/discomfort signals. | /r/seduction | 22/05/11 03:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I told HB7 spinach was a dubious ingredientHaha, really? What a yogurt? To me, it's somethingg you eat. | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 04:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo Sarge, Instant Wing, # Close, eventual F Close {super long}The stuff about who lies more men or women is Chris Rock's bit. It's actually quite dangerous to use canned routines of famous comedians, since it's even more likely your set's heard it before. I'd like to hear a FR about the 2nd day re-establishing kino, actually, if you ever put it up. It's something I'm bad at. | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 01:39 AM |
| 3 | For all the Redditors out there, What nationality/race are you most turned on by?This belongs on askseddit. Lately, there's just been too many questions on seddit itself, rather than on askseddit. | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 01:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I told HB7 spinach was a dubious ingredientHaha, is this what troll masters say? No, I wouldn't ask her on a 2nd date if I wasn't. What makes you say that? | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 01:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd date k-close and 3rd date no k-close with HB7That sounds right, to not judge by absolute standards for escalation. However, I might have to think about escalating quickly as a mental hack since in my mind I'm thinking I'm going fast, but when it comes out, it may seem like normal time. Well, what you say is good to hear. I'll see if I can get her to come out with me another time and we'll see how it turns out. Ya'll will get another FR. Hrm...I shouldn't be too outcome dependent since I have others on deck I'm more excited about...but I'll… | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 10:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Kino and calibration on the first date with HB7haha, it's said that sometimes it may be that the purpose of your life is to act as a warning to others. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 10:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd date k-close and 3rd date no k-close with HB7when I'm driving, I always get out of the car and walk her to the door. That way, you don't get awkward kisses and side hugs. But when I'm not driving, I guess I usually just reach over, and go for it...though at times, it doesn't seem to pan out or feel right. I'd be interested in other people's solutions. I thought about getting out, and saying goodbye to her through her car window for a kiss, but I've never tried it. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 08:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd date k-close and 3rd date no k-close with HB7Thanks for the write up. Hrm, I thought I did pretty well on the first, even though there was no kiss. It didn't feel right. Maybe because it was during the day. The 2nd one was at night. I think I feel self-conscious if there are possibly people watching. I guess I'll need to get over it. I don't believe the "I don't kiss on the 2nd date" either, since I got away with it. I actually didn't feel tense or nervous at all on the first two dates. (the first was which is detailed in the other FR). I … | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Just wondering how many of you originally entered the PUA community looking to cure oneitis?Yes. Kinda. I still think about her from time to time, but don't talk to her at all, so it makes it easier. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 06:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd date k-close and 3rd date no k-close with HB7Got it. Haven't mentioned it since. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 06:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd date k-close and 3rd date no k-close with HB7Yeah, I was much better on the first date. I didn't have a chance to kino correctly when she first pulled up, since she had to get stuff out of her trunk, so no jovial hello hug. Will have to rectify that next time. But to the changing part was no more than after 10 mins after she arrived, so I'm not sure if that would have been too early. I think I might have been able to do something. I just didn't figure it out until right after she changed. I thought I'd be able to get her to stay in the roo… | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm getting LMR before the last minuteHow does this work, btw? Sometimes, I have that happen to me, but it seems like the girl's trying to ask you out, but can't tell if you'd be receptive to a date, so they're trying to save face and ask if they can bring a friend along. I've always said, sure, the more the merrier, since I'm always like, what am I going to say, no? But now I'm thinking that I can just say, "Hey I haven't hung out with just you for a while. Let's do that." Would that work? | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 05:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Kino and calibration on the first date with HB7Thanks, but I managed to f'd it up later, I think. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hdhlw/fr_2nd_date_kclose_and_3rd_date_no_kclose_with_hb7/ | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 04:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] TokyoSeddit Lords Over Shibuya & Seduces Model (Value of Social Proof and more - with pics!)How did you manage to take pictures of people you just met? I always feel like people don't like their pictures taken, esp cameos, like you have there. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 07:08 PM |
| 3 | How to Analyze People on Sight by Benedict and Benedict--wow...just wowA self-help book from the early 1900's where you can categorize people according to five pure types, separated by the internal organ system seen as most highly developed. However, author admits someone can be of mixed types. Alimentive (gastrointestinal sys, so fat people), Thoracic (respiratory/circulatory sys, so athletes and what we call Type A personalities nowadays), Muscular (muscular sys, so the working class), Osseous (skeletal sys, pioneer/serious guy), and Cerebral (nervous sys, what w… | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding buying girls dinner, help?Haha, this has never been my problem. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Attracting girls, but I'm not closing them. Why am I not trying? Help.I have problems closing sometimes as well. But for other reasons...that I'm afraid I won't know how to get rid of her. In the middle of a date, I sometimes find something unattractive about the girl and don't want to escalate further. In my head, I'm thinking some guys won't care if she's annoying as long as she's HB7+ and just sleep with her. But I imagine in my head that once I sleep with them, I might not be able to get rid of them if I wasn't that attracted to them in the first place. I can'… | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditorsSo what constitutes sexual attractiveness? That's the crux of the question here. | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Can we have an FAQ information for women interested in seduction with GOOD informationYeah, I think that'd be helpful for them. But as most of us are males/(1 or 2 females) here picking up females, we wouldn't know what to write. Until there is a female pua willing to post FRs, we might not have much to compile. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 07:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] House New Year's Party first time FRHey, thanks for the info. I really like the tip about taking the camera to take pictures of crazy things. That way, it makes her laugh, and she'd know better than to ask you to take pictures for her next time. Brilliant. I guess I need to work on getting a girl to find me more attractive in a shorter time, in case my set gets interrupted. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 07:36 AM |
| 6 | Straight women reading seddit...why?How did you find this post to reply then? | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Favorite False Disqualifiers?When would it come up to use DQs? Do you bring it up? | /r/seduction | 16/12/10 11:09 PM |
| 1 | My girl is DTF, but not much else"Or do you confirm it, opt to make her feel better on your terms" I'm really curious how you do this. Any tips? | /r/seduction | 30/11/10 07:45 PM |
| 3 | How does one simply stop caring about results?Be able to talk to people as people and friends first. Transition from talking to people as friends to talking to people as potential lovers is subtle but easier. (Doesn't mean that someone you talk to as a friend can be turned into a lover though) The other thing is to have options. The more options you have, the less you care. Even if it seems like it's going well with one girl, keep talking to others even a bit after you're sure it's in the bag. Obviously, don't be an asshole, but it's good t… | /r/seduction | 30/11/10 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Can't read her, should I call the girl or back off?Thanks yo. It's helped that I've been pretty busy at work recently, and I've been trawling okc as well as getting out to meetup and bars to meet new women. Got a date next week with another girl. | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Can't read her, should I call the girl or back off?Just needed to hear it from someone else other than in my head. I'm already pursuing other women, but I think about her from time to time. I called her once a week since, but now I'm just not calling. | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Can't read her, should I call the girl or back off?Got the gym part down. | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Can't read her, should I call the girl or back off?FTOW = Find...that other woman? Yeah, though she's said before that I should call since "I'm the guy". I don't really buy into it. However, I don't want to have something go nowhere because I didn't do anything. I've had that happen too many times before, when I was more naive. That said, it's probably right that even if she thought that, she'd give me a call regardless if she wanted to, right? | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 11:20 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to "only if you deserve it" shit test?yeah, we're sleeping together. It's casual right now, so I don't see her that often. But I do like the girl, and was just wondering what's up with the "only if you deserve it" sort of comment. It's the first time I've heard something of the sort, and kinda threw me for a loop. | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 07:30 PM |
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