So heres the set up: went on a date, found out she was a stripper. K-Closed
Called her a few days later to set up 2nd date and she was receptive to it. Called her a day before second date to ask her if she was still down for the date. Three hours later she asks Her: where are you. Me: At my parents place Me: Wsup Her: I haven't slept yet
Me worried about what state she was in asked her if she was ok in response she said no. Communications started to go down hill after that. Tried calling her no pick up.
Two days later called her. No response. Texted again (Yeah I sorta went beta on this one). Called once more.
Finally I sent her one more text saying she missed out on the date and I went and had a good time. She replies back with : I wish I could have went.
Surprised at the fact she even responded but now not sure about if she was being sincere I decided to play a little game. I texted her after her response ME: Who is this? ME: My phone was wiped out.
In response was LOL
and again I ask who this was.
for a few hours I tried to nudge if she was that one cute artsy girl I met a few weeks back.
She dodges by saying "maybe, maybe not"
so later on I call her no pick up,
then text her "is this [girls name but spelled diffrently]" which she replies no
then I text her "or is this [girls name correctly]
no response.
So now I decided to just end messing with her and saying "is this [random friends name] if it is imma smack you over the head since i'm going to restore my phone"
her response: ...
So now I tell her Me: Hi [girls name], Did I worry you enough yet? Me: I'm literally cracking up right now Her:[Girls name]? Her:Lol Me: [Girls name] from [her home state], look just be honest with the next guy Her: hahaha Me: I'm suprised you didnt catch on earlier. Sorry if I freaked you out. This was my comeback for you worrying me sunday. Me: ;P
She responds with :LOL, i was fucking around which I don't believe
So I did a little frame change neg I respond back with: ME: Sure you were haha, you totally reminded me of my lil sis. We used to pull bullshit around each other all the time ME: Can we agree though we are better off as friends then dating?
a few mins later HER: HAHA! HER: Did you just say I remind u of ur sister HER: Hey advice is needed HER: Are you saying im not attractive
At this point I knew she was getting self conscious Me: Hahaha wow Me: Well how about we talk about this over the phone? Her: I'm not your type!? I'm everyone's type! Her: Lll Her: LOL Me: I'm not easily won over by looks haha Her: So I have a bad personality ME: Why are you so worried? Her: Just wondering Me: Gimme a ring and I can give you the advice
She doesn't call so 30 mins later Me: Anywho. I'm going out. When you're ready for an adult convo gimme a ring cus ill be driving Her: Yes Hang on
She still hasn't called two hours later
I know its probably not gonna work out, and at this point I've lost most interest. For future ref should I have not asked her to call me or can I get a break down on how to improve next time? The biggest thing that annoyed me was the flakeyness but was bending a little because I never went out with a stripper before.
UPDATE : She called back, but I was at a bar with some friends. Told her I was busy, but kept calling till 3 am.
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