Here it goes.

So I'm 18, third week of my engineering degree at a uni in Sydney. I'm pretty fit, like to make music and DJ and have been making a change in my lifestyle in order to be happier and less anxious about my future.

Basically over the past week or so I have been taking legitimate action to do what I've been learning about and meaning to do for a long time. My biggest influence in terms of seduction principles and techniques is James Marshall, and I have recently got in contact with TNL (his company) and will do some skype coaching when I have a job to pay for it. After I spoke to someone from the company on the phone, I realised that my first step would just to start saying hi to random people. That was my first real step in the direction of learning how to seduce people in a new way, I guess what we would say as becoming less of an AFC.

Basically since then I spent the last week building courage and confidence by talking to cute girls I saw, say on the train or the station, at uni/in class. And I noticed it made a difference to how I feel talking to friends I already have and was out at a bar/club with two mates, ran into some girls we know and then a few other people etc. Instead of just saying hey and not being sure what to say I just made an effort to be more social and I felt so much better. I know thats not a huge achievement in terms of seducing women but it helps. All I did was say fuck it and I could talk to two decent girls on the train in the morning another one my age at the platform in the afternoon. Not trying to get their numbers or anything, in fact I'm almost certain at least one of them wished I had the balls to keep talking to them rather then let them walk away or leave myself.

What I've learnt about myself so far:

  • I can talk to whoever the fuck I want

  • I should wear baggy shirts less often

  • I should figure out what I'm really passionate about

What I've learnt about other people:

  • Many, if not most, take kindly to people politely saying hello and having a chat

So thats all I can think of for now but most importantly I'd like to say thanks to everyone here for providing advice and support to one another. I update here on real progress and try to comment often with my limited knowledge but open mind!

Tl:Dr new here, started approaching girls to build confidence, will start some coaching soon, hopefully can give/take advice

Cheers

Oh and I'm a virgin