Now most of us fellas here are usually nice guys who finished last and wanted to change. Become better. I went through a lot of phases trying to impress women but ended up seeing that being myself with confidence works best. Its easy to tell someone to have confidence and that its all you need. But truth is you still have to go through all the phases to obtain that confidence. So here are some of the highlight of the phases I went through. Which phase did you guys like best?

Highlights of My phases.

Game phase - this is where it began. First year of college. An acquaintance introduced me to the book the game by Neil Strauss. Read it 3 times and side note its a better story than a guide. But I started using it. Was able to use its knowledge to bang a few chicks. One was a college girl who added me to facebook when it first came out. She dominated me in the sack, I had lots to learn. Another highlight was getting a girl I couldn't get in highschool to date me. Didn't last long and it went no where. I needed to improve.

Asshole phase - towards the middle of schooling I was dating 2 university girls who lived close to the campus. Risky but they never knew each other and I avoided spending time near the school with them. One introduced me to weed and awesome bjs and the other a heavenly booty with a cooch that could melt your 3rd boner in 2 seconds. I broke both these girls hearts and one even kept coming back. Experience gave me some confidence but I felt horrible for what I did.

Player phase - much like the previous phase but with more confidence. I was able to bang the girl from high school mentioned above. She claimed I played her but I didn't feel bad, took me too damn long. Dated a milf just For the sex and she too claimed I played her. Banged a few coworkers at my part time job. Even got a bit of a rep with the ladies for it. I didn't feel bad in this phase though I was a bit of an asshole. Until the milf and the high school girl later explain how womens feelings work with sex. I felt bad again.

Upfront phase/fwbs - I decided to be a man about everything involving female interactions. If I didn't want to date her but wanted to bang I let her know. Got turned down by some but thats life. I Convince the milf after not talking for a while to be fwb also got two other milf fwbs. A handful of random online dating hook ups were involved in this one. After a while though I decided it was time for something more.

Girlfriends phase - I began dating girls. Dated a smart girl I met on a night out. Gave the best bjs of life. Im talking toe curls. I miss them. My asshole phase kicked in and I banged her sister. Unforgivable. Dated a loner girl I met online. Bad idea. She had a great petite body. Went as far as meeting her parents before realizing she had too many issues and we were nothing alike. Im still learning. Had a few other gfs but nothing crazy.

Partying and sarging - A recent phase and a dying one. A lot of clubbing drinking and talking to women. In this phase ive gained more confidence that the rest. I started conversations with any girl. Took rejection like nothing and kept rolling. Went clubbing with a girl I banged and became friends with. She helped me pick up another girl. Unfortunately not for a 3some. At the same club on another night I was dancing with two girls. I was in the middle with one grinding and grabbing my dick while the other was making out with me titanic style. Hooked up with an old coworker I never expected to. Went to a party and ripped my pant crotch. The host gave me a superman onesie and I banged a chick on their washing machine with that onesie zipped down. My fingers have now been in a lot of vag on the dance floor. And even under more shirts grabbing titties. My goal was never to actually bring girls home when I went clubbing but to make out and number close for getting dates.

Self improvement - this is my phase now. Got a better job. Started working out and looking better. But most important i am myself. Im able to go out and not be a ass or use the game material to get girls. Im cheezy as fuck by nature and funny. When i go out im having a good time without the need to get or impress women. In the last month I don't think there is a week that I haven't met a new girl. I have banged more girls since the start of the year than I have in the first 3 years of this. But more importantly im at the stage where I can get the girl I want and keep her. And by the looks of it this could be the last phase because I met two girls like that recently and im in decision mode.