Hi,

Two years ago I was a shy guy and my only sexual experiences were with hookers. I paid one when I was 18 to lose my virginity and in the next two years I only had sex with prostitutes. Before this I had several options to lose my virginity like most guys here I guess. I just never acted out because I was scared.

At the age of 20 I took my studies more seriously and graduated 3 years later with a degree in Chemistry and Biochemistry. At this point I had no sex in 3 years and basically felt like a virgin. I've developed greater anxiety and shame around sexuality than ever before. I felt like an outsider just like you. People kept asking me about girlfriends and sexuality and I did not know what to tell them. So I lied. To them and to myself. I'm busy. I don't have time. I don't care. But guess what? Inside I cared. More than anybody else. I saw women walking with other guys and asked myself why. Why are they chosen and not me? Why are they better?

I decided to make a change. I got into PickUp, read a lot of dating advice and approached more women than I care to admit. Everything that I feared happened to me. I got entitled with sexual harrasment by many people and finally got kicked out of university for approaching women and open communication of sexual topics.

A couple of months and hundreds of women later I found a beautiful french girl that wanted to sleep with me. We did it for 2 hours. I could not come. The condom sucked and I jerked off 4 times a day before (stop that shit guys seriously).

When I got kicked out of university I moved in with my mom. She kicked me out and I was homeless for one night. She came the next day to pick me up again because she didn't want me to continue to sleep on the street. 5 days later I met my current girlfriend and I fell in love with her like crazy pretty quickly and so did she.

Now we are happily together and I started the business of my dreams and have more friends than ever before.

Before this I had to lose jobs, my university status, my money, family and home. So what are you complaining about? It's not supposed to be easy! Especially as a man you're wired to do hard shit. Women always have selected strong men over men who complain that life doesn't go their way. Get working, it's in your hand. Start approaching women (they ain't gonna come to you), work out and face your fears. Get your clothing style under control. And you'll get there.

I think this video that I made can help you too:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHT8lwGiR9M

Sometimes things need to get worse before they get better,

Arthur