When I started going out to meet and seduce women I really had trouble to start or keep interesting conversations going. Today I can take peoples breath away just after seconds and almost always I am the one who actively needs to walk away because the conversation would otherwise continue for hours.

This is not a troll post everything I describe here is my personal experience and has actually happened.

In my experience men who have problems hooking people in conversation have two problems:

  1. Actually being an interesting person
  2. Communicating your emotions (being authentic)

Let's start with 1. (actually being an interesting person):

A lot of advice out there tells you to only talk about the best moments of your life, your ambition etc. Then there's the part where you tease the women. Since every guy does that stuff and some of them not even know how to tease probably (they end up insulting the woman) it's not really interesting.

So how do you become a person that is actually interesting? The answer is somewhat logical. You need to have a character and/or experiences that few people have.

Now you will ask me: But Arthur what experiences are unique?!

Well you will need to figure out that for yourself. Do I look like genie who can grant you any wish?

Kidding I can give you good place to start.

In Dante's Inferno the protagonist wants to travel to god and his final destination is paradise.

To get there his journey starts in hell. And worse, he figures the only way out of hell is by going to the center.

This myth is very common throughout dozens of very popular stories like King Arthur, Harry Potter, The Heroes Journey etc.

What you can pick up is that you will need to find your demons and face them. This is a very personal thing but you will need to pay close attention of what you're afraid of. If there's no actual physical harm involved you should do what you're afraid of.

Afterwards you will have great and unique stories to share which takes us to part 2 (Communication of emotions):

Most men think rationally and act based on their rational mind when it comes to conversations.

These are the guys who stumble: "Uhm so where do you live?" While this can be an opener if the situation is appropriate you obviously cannot have an interesting conversation like this.

I told women minutes after meeting them how I lost my virginity to prostitutes and was embarrassed for most of my life. Then I did a YouTube video about it and shared it with my whole social media network. Whether you apply this or not. Do you think this conversation will be interesting? Spoiler: Yes. Who says something like this? Nearly nobody. That's what makes it interesting.

I tell them how I was frightened to death of making that video. How I sat at home for three days not wanting to see anybody because I was so embarrassed afterwards. And the women can actually feel the emotion because it's my personal truth.

Obviously that was a horrible experience but it was also one that has shaped me like few experiences in my life have. So I love telling it. Some people like it and some people don't. Either way it's fine.

Dig into yourself. Find the things your fear most and face them. You will stronger and a more interesting person afterwards. Then go and share what you have experienced without filter. You will not only become crazy attractive (trust me I have done it) but your conversations will take peoples breath away just like mine.

DM me if you have any questions!

Peace.