Well what can I say, I've been quite the lurker so I finally decided to give it a try and contribute.

I'm a San Diego State Student studying Economics, 22, Filipino. I was always interested in "The Game" but due to my past circumstances could not pursue it. My transformation began a couple months ago when the love of my life (5 years) broke my heart. Reading a few threads from the sidebar, I realized what I did wrong, I gave her everything she wanted and let her take control of the relationship, I was Beta and her being extremely fucking gorgeous, got bored.

For a couple weeks I did what was expected and sulked the shit out of the word sulk. Then, while browsing /r/gonewild I realized that there are literally so many women willing and expecting the same things I want. I don't know if it's our generation, our media, our culture, my mayor, but we are no longer sheltered beings. Sex has gotten so comfortable, that all of us are refusing to acknowledge it.

Anyway, I'm going to go ahead and guess that I am what you may call a Natural, I've always been aggressive, had a way with words and the type to always be comfortable around women. My main issue is, due to cultural upbringing, I'm nice, like nice, like really nice. I hate it. Other than that, my little issues were fixed by just reading the rest of the beautiful shit in here. Though I can get better at texting, I've always felt that it was empty, so I'm working on that. Anyways, I just wanted to take some time and appreciate what this community has done for me. I'm not the type to use this knowledge for evil gains, even though sometimes I am guilty of it. I'm a strong believer in bettering myself in all aspects of the word self, and this community has helped a lot in that process. Being still new around here, my advice for everyone else in my position is the recurring advice everyone has already given.

Just talk to her man.

We are so oblivious of the fact that we are who we are because of our mistakes, so whether it be with women or anything else, make your mistakes.

I am in the process of expanding my social circle, so if you're in San Diego, enjoy intellectual conversations and want to build from each other while talking to the most beautiful women our species has to offer, message me. To everyone else in here, if I were made of money I would buy you all gold, but since that would be evolutionary stupid the next best thing I can offer is to be active and contribute more often. As an economics major, I actually like analysis and statistics, I tend to apply that to the women I hit on as well. So expect a few witty field reports of failure and success, thanks again everyone!

EDIT: Thanks for the response guys! I appreciate it, meeting with a few with you to sarge and work on building off each other! If anyone else wants to join inbox me.