Hey seddit, first and foremost thanks for being such a great community! This post might not interest a lot of people because a lot of what I plan to write is strictly for me, as a benchmark/check-in type of deal. If you can gleam anything from my journey thus far, that is a bonus! Ask me anything about what I say as well!

I stumbled upon seddit about two months ago and started commenting right away. This was my first time learning about the whole "seduction" thing and it really interested me, so I gave it a go.

I have not changed the person I am, at all. I have changed how I interact with women. Before, I would be the charming, kind, and funny guy I am, but it would not lead to dates or closes because I failed to realize that women love guys just as much as the opposite!

I was always afraid to hold a girl, or tell her my intention of making love to her (outright or with kino), and fell into the friend zone trap. This was a timely mistake as I have made some great friends that I hope will be with me for time to come.

I would say the two biggest things that have made a difference in my dating life are working out daily and being apologetically-unafraid to show interest in a girl. I can't say I've ever had problems having girls being attracted to me (because of a combination of looks, which took effort to develop, and my A+ personality, which came about because of my focus on myself, and wanted to be a good person.) but it took some time to turn this attraction I have felt into closes and dates.

At this point in time, I have put myself out there. If I am attracted to a girl, I give myself a chance with her in whatever way I can. I do not want to have regrets, and since becoming a seddit member, I can honestly say I have none. Thanks everyone!