After wandering for about 2 hours trying to find girls in a public holiday, and after letting go a couple of opportunities I was on my way back home and I saw this gorgeous girl walking down the street. So I fucking parked my car and approached her.
I don't like the idea of running routines on girls, or memorizing lines. I think it's much better to look them in the eye, look them in the eye, make your intent clear and say what's on your mind. That's just my personal opinion, and what I'm trying to become.
So I'd really like to know what to do when girls are not responding at all, which is what happened to me. I approached, I made her take her headphones off and said: "Hi, I know this is random but I saw you walking and I had to park my car and come to tell you, that you look fucking gorgeous, and I wanna get to know you." So the girl got nervous and she obviously wanted to go, I asked a few things like, what are you up to, or where are you going and she just said stuff like "nothing, there's nothing interesting about me, etc" After an awkward silence I said something like "Hey I like you but if you don't like me I'll just walk away, no worries" And she just stood there all like "wtf is this", and I couldn't handle the pressure/awkwardness so I left.
It may be a little bit too direct, but this is what I want to be. It may not fit with all kinds of girls but at least I'd like to know what mindset could I take to handle this kind of situations.
I wasn't too worried about the outcome, but is just that working in a farm in the middle of nowhere, from 5am to 6pm, every fucking day is very exhausting. I have every second weekend off, so as you see, very little free time. On top of that, english is not my first language so I definitely lack of espontaneity and fluency when it comes to speak with a person, specially a girl. And there's not much people to talk where I am so I feel a bit stuck with developing conversational skills and stuff. I hate the way these sounds like fucking gay excuses but I (think) am trying my best.
Any sincere advice is welcome, thanks a lot for that.
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