As I’ve been on this subreddit for a while I’ve noticed a lot of men really are naive and aloof when it comes to women’s strategy and manipulation when it comes to dating in general.

It’s as if they don’t understand women can “play” guys as well and quite effectively if not more than the average man.

I’m not trying to berate any women in general or sound misogynist but men need to wisen up and learn to exhibit masculine traits more often to avoid being toyed with by females.

A lot of times a woman will exhibit conflicting behaviour and men will rush to this group trying to understand and analyse what her interest level is when in reality actions speak louder than words.

Yes, she will have sex on the first or second date, just not with you maybe; no that doesn’t make her a slut, it just means you didn’t get her going like that - stop letting women toy with you, because if she senses you are weak and can be toyed with she will.

Stop believing what women say and start seeing what they actually do. Actions speak louder than words.