I sucked with women, I really did. I was in a bad place in my life until I dedicated t fix this area of my life. I spent money on products and boot camps. After 5 years of dedicating myself to this area of my life, I am in complete control. I do what a lot of guys want to do, I am a natural. I'm going to tell you how to be a natural, so you can have a life you want!

Attraction is nothing more than wanting to be intimate with someone. Intimacy can be broken into three categories: Physical, Emotional, and Intellectual. To be naturally attractive, you must show her these qualities are in check.

Physical attraction is the easiest to fix. All you really need to do is not look like shit. You don't have to be a male model, but you can't look like Jabba the Hutt. Work out, spend money on clothes, and be well groomed. (A side note on clothes. The way you dress yourself is vital. If you dress like a hippie, it will be harder to get a "preppy" girl. It's not impossible, but it will be more difficult)

Being emotionally attractive is the hardest to achieve. Basically you need to demonstrate that you are not a basket case. Basically, don't be a cry baby. "you are good enough, but there is always room for improvement." That mindset is something I still have with me 5 years into this wild adventure. You need to show that you can show emotion, but you don't need your emotions control you. Women usually need a man that can be her rock. emotionally stable. If you have real mental health issues, seek professional help.

Intellectual attraction means that she wants to know what you think and believes what you say is of importance. "Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something". Learn to shut the fuck up. If she is talking about quantum mechanics, don't pretend you know whats going on, ask her questions.Only talk about things you know about. Don't bullshit her, she'll know when you do. Ultimately, you should just read a lot about topics that interest you. Don't be a dumb ass, but don't assume you are smarter than you are.

Once you have fixed these things, it is time to learn "game". Game is nothing more than reading a situation and understanding when to build sexual tension.

Social cues are impossible to understand if you don't know how to read a situation. A few things go into reading a situation. the first is calibrating their energy level. Don't be really hype if they are really chill, Don't go in chill if they are really hype. In conversation, read body language. Know when they are into the interaction and when they are bored. So many great books on how to develop these skills to read a situation.

Building tension comes from asserting your frame as the dominant frame. this will cause there to be polarity between the masculine and feminine energies. You should also be clear with your intent. Be direct, and be bold. Don't think about pulling the trigger, just do it.

I know that I didn't go in depth with a lot of these ideas, but I want you guys to get the basic idea of "natural game".

TL;DR: Be an attractive guy and have social skills. Stop being a little cry baby when a girl doesn't want to fuck you. You don't deserve sex just because you're a guy. You have to make her wan't to fuck you.