Need a little emotional support and feedback from you guys

personal_cheezits · 2025-06-21T20:41:12+00:00

Your first mistake was practicing on a stripper. Not that there’s anything wrong with sex work, but her whole career is manipulating men so she can separate them from their money.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-06-21T21:08:52+00:00

- She said that she doesn't think I'm naturally a sexy guy-- that I don't come across as sexy-- and that on first impression she would assume I had a small dick. I'm having a really hard time crawling out of the psychological hole that put me in. I don't give a shit if I fuck this girl or not. I sleep with women constantly. I have a rotation going and I meet new girls on dating apps often. But all my insecurities have popped out and are dogging me

So here is the thing, you say you get girls on dating apps often, without paying them, sleeping with them due to your natural rizz, hence you have reasons to believe that you are attractive and desirable to many of them. Yet, this woman tells you a small critic about what she would imagine you to be, and now you have a bit of a personal crisis?

Women don't exist to make you feel liek you are worth something, good enough, or desirable enough. Women are not tools of self-affirmation where a woman liking you is something you interpret as proof that you are competent enough or worthy enough, and a woman not liking you something you interpret as proof that you are not competent enough or worthy enough.

So why are you giving her opinion so much weight? i mean in a way you kinda deserve the ego hit for bragging about fucking hot women to her.

You made it too easy for her to hit your ego by being like:

You: "Hey look girl, as you can see i can fuck hot girls too and my dick is bigger than you imagined, so that means i am atractive and you should want to be with me too to not miss out" That's probably how she interpreted that move of yours.

You are looking for validation mate. I feel like the reason you want to fuck any of these strippers is because of ego. You seek confirmation that you are so desirable and attractive that even a girl who would normally charge other men for it, is someone you can conquer and fuck for free,... so that you can then tell others or even just to yourself: "I am such an alpha".

And that's why her comment upset you so much, because that went against your goal. She just hit your ego, when you were trying to feed it by conquering her and trying to get sex for free from her so that you could tell yoruself "i really must be an alpha if i can fuck a stripper with my rizz." but her saying that put you in your place real quick.

That's why your inner game is collapsing hard on you. The lesson is: Don't go out there to seek validation and to serve the needs of yoru ego. Stop using women to prove to yourself or to others that you have value as a man.

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UPDATE: OP blocked me

Title	Need a little emotional support and feedback from you guys
Author	axillapartdeux
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	June 21, 2025 8:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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