Sup guys. I've followed this subreddit from time to time, & finally felt the need to post something for myself (& maybe some others) here.

So trying to keep simple, I'm 21, M, and apparently very attractive. Now, arrogance/pride w/e aside, this is not from what I think but from countless people straight up telling me - from both guys, girls, hell random strangers, friends' moms.. I personally don't see it, but I digress.

I also don't have too much of an issue talking to women. I'm an introvert & quite shy, although when I put in the effort, I seem to be decent at spitting game - at least at the speaking part.

Now here's my issue - being a virgin mainly has me at a lack of sexual experience. However, I've also never freakin' kissed a girl. No makeouts, even a single peck on the lips,... just a peck on the cheek from a few drinking games. I've also never dated.

Ultimately over time, I figured my root cause at failing with both progressing with any encounter or experience in general, is due to this small inhibition.

I'd love some advice as to how I get over it. Should I literally just try and makeout with some random girl at the bar and get it over with? Even that, would be difficult for me. But at this point i'm really eating myself over all my past chances I turned away over fear.

Some people say it's best to try for a girl friend, given that it's massive experience overall and much more comfortable.