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[–]sillymallard 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I would recommend going to Adams Morgan. It's literally a buffet of 40 or so bars and clubs there, always packed, and lots of people on the street as well. The environment makes it easy to bounce around really quickly. Try going out solo, and early before it gets to be drunk 'o' clock.
[–]jking12262 points 14 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
Going out solo is what I do now, and it really isn't as fun as it could be. Doing stupid shit and getting shot down might be amusing for the moment, but I feel like I'd make a lot more progress with people to give me pointers, and hanging with people you know and feeding of each other is just way more fun.
[–]sillymallard 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
You have all the friends to give you pointers right here on seddit. I don't see any field reports from you in the past 6 months. You will get blown out less if you post what you did to get blown out here and get advice from the pros. I promise to you that by Sunday you will see at least two new field reports from me posted to seddit, however lame they might be, asking for advice. I challenge you to do the same! We'll go out together in spirit!
[–]jking12262 points 14 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
I get what you're saying, but hanging out with people in real life is quite a bit different from writing a report about your night online. I'll do a field report this weekend, though.
[–]sillymallard 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I am always the first to admit that I am an AFC. However, ever since I started posting field reports just one month ago, I've seen noticeable improvement. You haven't asked for advice on seddit via a field report yet, so saying that people in real life would help you better than online is a baseless opinion to have. Do you see what I'm saying? Try it out, man. Read my FR[9] and FR[12] for inspiration. While I have yet to get a proper # close or kiss, they are my best nights out yet, which I am utterly proud of. I'm going to be looking for your FR this weekend, and I will give you crap if you don't post one! Finally, by all means, if you can get friends in real life to help you, do it, but don't think you need friends in real life to make progress.
[–]jking12261 points 14 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
The thing I dislike about FR's is that I rely entirely on the law of large numbers. I get phone #'s and makeouts, but they're usually like 5 minute encounters or very dependent on dancing with zero conversation.
That really doesn't lend itself to being written down. It sort of just ends up like, "so tonight i approached 30 different girls, with wacky shit, I got 5 phone numbers and made out with some random girl I started dancing with. The End."
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, would it be too much to ask (you know, on behalf of yourself) that you remember your wacky shit, who you said it to that blew you out, who you said it to that hooked before you fucked it up, and who you said it to that you were able to close? The progress of what happened when you did dance and makeout with that random girl?
If you notice a pattern - "I tend to advance and close better when I use steadily escalating kino" or "I decided to not give a fuck and jumped a few steps up the ladder with a girl immediately after opening her, _________ happened" - then the merit of a field report should be obvious. It's not really for the Seddit community, or even for feedback from us to you; it requires you to think about your approach to game as something beyond "I said some wacky shit"
[–]sillymallard 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop being a keyboard jockey and post a fucking field report. You are searching for any reason to not post a FR and have some strong opinions about them, despite NEVER having posted a FR on seddit yourself. No need to tell us everything, just post the stuff you want feedback on. Sorry for the tough love, but I'm trying to help you out. You'll at least be able to track your progress by writing it all down.
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