Two girls, different circumstances, same outcome. A few weeks ago I went to a bar with a few friends after I nailed a job interview so I was feeling supremely confident and opening a whole bunch of girls. So this (average) girl comes up to me and starts talking, flirting, twirling the hair, etc...Seemingly really into me. We make out for a while and I tell her to come to another place with me (pretty much thinking of going to my place) and she tells me "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you." I was a little surprised because every signal she sent was pretty much going there. After trying to coax her a little more, I just kinda gave up because that's what she kept telling me.

I met girl #2 through a couple (one of my best friends and his gf). She just got divorced so I thought that the whole set-up was so that she could get laid. She was pretty attractive so I decided to go with it. Anyway, my friends "left" so that I could be alone with her and so we start to make out. At this point we were on her sofa and I try to lay her down but she tells me "I'm not going to sleep with you." Again, I tell her to relax, thinking that she just needs a little more time to get adjusted to me but to no avail. When I ask her why, she says that it's "not my style" and "I just met you." But I'm thinking that's just BS.

Now I heard that if a girl says this, I should reply with something like "That's fine, I don't sleep with (insert insult here) bitches anyway" but I'd like to avoid being an asshole.

Anyway, don't know what gives...Am I losing it?