Album of message convo: http://imgur.com/a/pXTEQ (Messages go from bottom up, couldn't get it going downwards)

Short background:
Met this girl about 3 weeks ago through a mutual friend, actually had an interaction with the next weekend. Hooked up at club Fri & Sat (Just makeout). Met up next Tues, short walk then makeout with her topless. Nothing for next 1.5 weeks cause of exams then met up with her yesterday last time before we go away for the break. Short walk then escalated to fingering, both of us wanted to bang but she said she had to be on the pill and 100% safe. Chilled with her the rest of the day. We're both 18 and virgins, she hadn't kissed a guy since she was 15. When we couldn't see each other we messaged each other most days with a call or two mixed in as well.


Things I'm wondering about are:

  • Is the fact she feels really comfortable with me because I've built strong rapport, or it is simply because I'm comfortable with myself? Possibly because we have a mutual friend so there is already comfort established? (Probably a bit of both I guess). The bit throwing me off here is that she doesn't even know

  • She tells me I'm mysterious and intriguing, but I don't feel like I've done anything particularly special to make her feel like that about me. Is this a result of me just letting her talk? She says she feels like that, yet she is still very comfortable with me. Rather contradictory.

The way I see it is that she like the mystery and intrigue, but I don't get how she is still so comfortable with me.

I take the way she is feeling as a sign I'm doing at least something right because she is/has been definitely chasing me/working for it and views me in that mysterious way.