I'm a guy that's pretty much a natural with Verbal game. It comes from a history of public speaking, and just being smooth.

If I'm introduced to a girl, chances are the way i talk will get her attracted eventually.

Last night however pointed out a major major flaw in my game. That is Kino. Talking can only get you so far, and when you're sitting there talking about stupid shit to her, and your wing has the girl in his lap already, your girl WILL lose focus and go try to 'break' her friend out as well, unless ofcourse she's sitting in your lap with your face in hers.

I'm talking cold approach night-street-game Kino. Eg. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JO_A7M0pesg

How do you do this stuff... The first set I tried this on led me to talking to her and then awkwardly reaching behind her back to try to get an arm around, and then just sorta.. tapping her on the back and getting scared. (pussy I know). To be fair she just wasn't that into me, (my friend moved his girl a few meters away) and then my girl basically left me and followed her friend and my friend. Which basically was the end of the set..

The second attempt I got a really broken set that was just angry.. I was talking to her and then just slotted my hands in hers and held on. This girl was NOT a good set, she basically looked straight at me and told her to 'stop, let go and leave.'.

She pulled something similar earlier, where she said the same thing, and i just stared right back at her, and she cracked and said "I'm just joking." So i asked her while holding her hand "Are you serious, or is this another joke, i can't tell".

Eventually my wing (Who's got really good kino game) lifted his set up and walked into my set, and she basically told him to fuck off as well. At which point we bailed, hugged(half halfheartedly), and said goodbye to the set.

How do I fix this Seddit?