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http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=8&mn=1261566993592678&method=browse there's this
/r/seduction29/05/13 11:44 AM
5

I get over the regret of wasted years by banging teenage girls. Feels good, man.
/r/seduction13/02/13 04:28 AM
-1

tl;dr
/r/seduction11/01/13 04:07 PM
-2

tl;dr
/r/seduction23/12/12 09:13 PM
16

I make tons of women fall in love with me. I sleep with them, then laugh maniacally as I flee to chase after new women. maybe ok not really
/r/seduction22/12/12 01:19 PM
2

Normally I'd just tell someone with your problem to use conversation threading, but the grieving thing makes it more complicated. It could just be that you are out of practice with social skills. If you're good at anything, and then you don't do it for a while, you're going to stop being so good at it.
/r/seduction22/12/12 01:17 PM
2

Why did that girl just go up to him, giggle and give him his number?" You can quickly create preselection by casually and chatting up girls right when you enter a venue.
/r/seduction22/12/12 12:46 PM
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During this month I met a beautiful and sexy girl (I'd say she's an 8) and started talking and flirting and she seemed interested. After one week of talking and hanging out I decided to tell her that I wanted get more intimate with her, I wanted to be more than friends Well, I think you've probably learned a lot, but you're still approaching dating the AFC way. After one week of talking and hanging out You should be trying to have sex on the first or second date. You seem to be trying to be frie…
/r/seduction16/12/12 11:18 PM
2

http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=1234116640538473 kino escalation ladder Read it over and over. Aside from that, just accept that you're going to seem creepy some of the time. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...
/r/seduction11/12/12 04:21 PM
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/r/dcseddit
/r/seduction07/12/12 07:14 AM
10

ITT socially awkward males suddenly becomes experts on a topic they have no experience in
/r/seduction05/12/12 08:58 PM
1

Supposedly the whole thing has been archived by certain people in the PUA community, but they are not releasing their archives yet for fear of legal consequences.
/r/seduction03/12/12 10:40 PM
2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opUT4lSM2dc
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:07 PM
2

Magic Bullets was pretty cool. I read Double Your Dating when I was a foreveralone and thought it was great, but now that I have a bit of experience I think the author didn't actually know how to pick up girls.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:47 PM
1

your dick is huge
/r/seduction20/11/12 12:03 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge
/r/seduction19/11/12 11:29 PM
126

Was this one bizarre trick discovered by a mom?
/r/seduction17/11/12 10:18 PM
13

Do what you want. There's nothing anyone can tell you about what you definitely should be doing. Some girls love bear mode guys. Some girls cum buckets when they see bishounen. Maybe you have shitty chest hair that looks bad. Maybe you can't pull off bear mode. Maybe you just love the feeling of having smooth sexy skin. Maybe you just can't be arsed to shave. There's a bunch of different factors and no one right way. Although I will tell you that if you shave your armpit hair, you will almost ne…
/r/seduction17/11/12 09:02 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge
/r/seduction17/11/12 02:06 AM
2

Trick her into thinking you're a really attractive guy.
/r/seduction17/11/12 12:37 AM
2

I remember someone on a seduction forum saying that they moved to a new city, and just started sending friend request to tons and tons of local people. A lot of the people accepted the friend requests, and soon the guy was getting invited to parties and stuff. Out of curiosity, how big is your city?
/r/seduction16/11/12 11:37 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge
/r/seduction03/11/12 10:24 PM
4

Go bang some girls who you thought were out of your league.
/r/seduction31/10/12 05:54 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ri2zw/fr_successfully_used_the_hes_not_coming_opener/
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:44 PM
6

"Hi. I'm a rapist."
/r/seduction26/10/12 04:58 PM
5

They're attention whores who exploit the community for publicity and for their own financial advantage. duh
/r/seduction26/10/12 06:15 AM
3

cross your arms to hide your boner
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:34 AM
1

It's called "The Game". There's only one. It never changes. If it changed, we have to start calling it "The Games". You could send a modern PUA back to the caveman days, and he'd have a harem of cave bitches lined up wanting to fuck him. You could send an alpha cave man forward to the singularity, and he'd have digital bitches lined up waiting to have virtual sex with him. Haven't you seen the movie Encino Man? Canned material is lame, though.
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:51 PM
35

fuck off i'm in cocoon mode
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:43 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:46 AM
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implying anyone on seddit will have to deal with this problem
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:01 AM
1

push/pull qualify her do kino
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:01 PM
1

...unless you're calling girls bitches for the purpose of consensual erotic humiliation. If so, then carry on.
/r/seduction20/10/12 07:02 PM
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1 I'm not sure if this is because I'm so smooth that I easily seduce women, or because I'm so awkward that I can't get a second date, so every time I've had sex it necessarily occurred on the first date.
/r/seduction20/10/12 06:56 PM
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How do I get a gf?
/r/seduction20/10/12 01:35 AM
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http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=1234116640538473 Take her home by asking her to come home. Make an excuse or something so you aren't like "Come home so I can sex you."
/r/seduction20/10/12 01:33 AM
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Never attribute to malice what can be adequately explained by incompetence.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:54 AM
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Ok, so like once, I got tired of people telling me I was awkward and seemed depressed and shit, so I decided to go out, and smile constantly, because I thought that would solve that problem. It took me a while to figure out why women wouldn't talk to me. I mean like I would see looks of genuine FEAR in their faces as I tried to talk to them. After a while of being confused as to why I was doing so much worse than usual, I formulated a hypothesis that my smiling was having a negative effect. I st…
/r/seduction07/10/12 04:39 AM
2

I say keep it up and who cares if others don't like it, that's their problem. The OP cares, since it's preventing him from getting laid. Just because doing something a lot is a good thing doesn't mean that it's impossible to do it too much.
/r/seduction07/10/12 04:24 AM
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exactly! And that's why I'm not posting a link myself.
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:09 PM
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She's coming over to your house alone. She knows what's up. Girls aren't that dumb. Read the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, and you should know what to do.
/r/seduction06/10/12 04:21 PM
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Anyways, I'm in a situation in life where there is a serious drought of women! You and every other man on the planet... I go to a private school where literally... there is ONE woman in any of my classes. You're only allowed to talk to women in your classes? You can't do daygame off campus? You can't go to parties, or join clubs? I've never been a big drinker to enjoy the bar scene Do you have to drink to hit on girls in bars? Do you have to go to bars to socialize? It's been against my morals t…
/r/seduction06/10/12 02:49 PM
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Why are you so concerned with talking to girls who are "normal"?
/r/seduction06/10/12 02:24 PM
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magic bullets
/r/seduction04/10/12 11:57 PM
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sounds kind of awkward Why didn't you have sex with her, though?
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:44 AM
3

sure
/r/seduction28/09/12 03:50 AM
1

To be fair, he does say that it's an advanced product. It started out with him describing the concept of state, and saying how sometimes he would go out and women would treat him like a sex god, and sometimes he would go out and women would treat him like a creep. I was like "Yes! I have experienced this also! This product will surely fix this huge problem in my game." Five hours and lots of mental masturbation later... nope. Unless the good part comes right at the end or something and I gave up…
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:33 AM
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The man whose neg makes me laugh most gets an autographed copy of my book. (Terms and conditions apply, haha) That would be qualifying ourselves to you. We know better than that.
/r/seduction26/09/12 01:18 AM
4

I watched a lot of Blueprint Decoded. I kept wondering when he was going to get to the point. I finally got bored and gave up.
/r/seduction25/09/12 06:13 PM
1

Yeah, my penis confuses me too. I don't think I'm quite as bad as you, though.
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:57 PM
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http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=8&mn=1261566993592678
/r/seduction24/09/12 11:44 PM
1

Play with your dick until it gets hard. I get good results if I hump a girl's leg. Your mileage my vary :3
/r/seduction24/09/12 11:44 PM
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Try harder to get an erection.
/r/seduction23/09/12 05:16 PM
1

Oh, hmm. I can see why an AFC might need to be told specifically to ask a girl out. I was thinking of it from my point of view, where I would just flirt with a girl for a bit, but then there would be no question that I would eventually ask her out. But I didn't mean that the part about him asker her out was creepy. There wasn't anything concrete in rmbarnes post that was creepy. I only thought the tone of his suggested text was creepy. It's not what he was saying--just the way he was saying it. …
/r/seduction20/09/12 06:40 PM
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Well, there's no point in continuing this discussion. You accused me of telling the guy that he shouldn't be up front. I pointed out that I had actually agreed with you that being up front was good. I'm not sure what else there is to say. At this point it feels like I'm having a debate with a religious person. Well, maybe if you could tell me what is so special about the rest of that sentence that you think it changes the point, we could discuss that. I don't see the difference.
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:27 PM
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The standard answer to your question is conversation threading. http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge Skip down to the part where it says "Threading-the simplest and most effective conversation technique". Once I learned this technique I was amazed that I could suddenly carry on long conversations without running out of things to say. My friends were like wtf when did you acquire social skills
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:13 PM
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I don't have a problem with him putting his intention up front. You seriously think it's more creepy for a guy to be up front, or for a guy to lie about his intentions and trick the girl into hanging out? Better?
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:32 AM
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I don't have a problem with him putting his intention up front. You seriously think it's more creepy for a guy to be up front puntingbaxter confirmed for illiterate.
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:56 PM
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She doesn't respond for about 4 hours, so I text her "I'll take that as a "no." Have a great night. Take care." oh god why
/r/seduction19/09/12 05:21 PM
1

How are you kissing so many girls but not fucking them? Have you read this? http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=1234116640538473 Aside from that, watch this. It might give you some inspiration. www.youtube.com/watch?v=opUT4lSM2dc Maybe you need to ask more specific questions. I don't think we can tell you much about what you might be doing wrong from the information that you have given.
/r/seduction19/09/12 05:11 PM
1

I don't have a problem with him putting his intention up front. He just needs to find a way to say it that isn't super creepy. I can't quite put my finger on what about his suggestion is creepy. If OP wanted to go that route, he could say "I lied. I just wanted your number because I think you're cute." Possibly it's the fact that he asks her a question that he knows the answer to, like an adult playing a condescending game with a child, or the fact that he doesn't use complete sentences, or the …
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:35 PM
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no it sounds like you're about to tell her you want to give her the old lickaroo
/r/seduction19/09/12 03:03 PM
1

Ya she probably cut out the part where a sweet, but awkward and nerdy guy politely approached her and she called him a creep and told him to fuck off. She also cut out the one where a PUA picked her up, and she tried to reject him, but eventually succumbed to his charm.
/r/seduction18/09/12 11:54 PM
1

Any ideas on how i could keep a conversation going when it seems like i have no more questions to ask or listen to what she has to say? First of all, good job! Your scrotum might have some stretch marks on it after today what with your balls having grown several sizes in such a short time. The standard answer to your question is to use the technique of conversation threading. http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge Skip down to the p…
/r/seduction18/09/12 09:00 PM
1

Well, I guess some porn is worse than others, but all of it is going to show penises going into vaginas, so it's better than nothing if you want to figure out the logistics of how that works. If you're that concerned, you can find amateur porn of real couples having sex.
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:50 PM
1

I was wondering if it's even worth trying freshman year? Try. Not trying is not even an option. Next you'll be wondering if it's even worth trying in college. Then you'll get a job and you'll be wondering if it's even worth trying at your current job. Suddenly you'll realize one day that you're a 25 year old virgin because you were always waiting for the perfect opportunity. The difference between people who are not successful and people who are is that people who are not successful say "This is…
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:25 PM
4

wtf I wish girls who rejected me would all be as polite as she is.
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:07 PM
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I don't care THAT much about getting them into bed with me as fast as possible When your girl loses interest in you because she met and and started fucking another guy while you were taking your time, them come tell us how you feel. Don't worry too much about those three rules or whatever that you wrote. Just get out there and start approaching girls. You're going to fail a lot, and like they say, the first casualty in any battle is the plan. If you are new to dating, then you don't know shit, a…
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:00 AM
9

Maybe they were the ones responsible for the orgy at Bronycon.
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:11 PM
13

Have you actually done this?
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:15 PM
1

Do you even approach?
/r/seduction07/07/12 10:20 PM
2

It's even easier to seduce men than to seduce women. You could become a misandrist too. (This is assuming that it does real.)
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:12 PM
2

What should I read the sidebar magic bullets this this THIS: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=1234116640538473 any tips on where to go? Well, you can do night game, which is clubs and bars. You can do daygame, which is picking up girls on the street, the book store, and places like that, or you can do online game on places like okcupid.com or pof.com, although online game probably won't get you enough experience on its own. You can go to concerts or music …
/r/seduction06/07/12 07:42 PM
1

He said "despite", not "because of".
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:29 PM
-7

You're no pun.
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:09 AM
3

There's already a post about kino in the sidebar. You haven't actually read the sidebar, have you?
/r/seduction04/07/12 02:01 AM
78

Hi. You must be new here.
/r/seduction03/07/12 06:17 PM
3

It really isn't. I flirt with everyone: teenage girls, old women, men (no homo) Life is short. Stop worrying so much about being prim and proper.
/r/seduction02/07/12 10:16 PM
1

It's illegal to screw underage girls. It's not illegal to talk to them. Just sayin...
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:04 PM
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tl;dr
/r/seduction01/07/12 01:38 PM
2

Starting conversations and keeping them going seems like the obvious next choice. Add strangers on skype and start conversations with them if you want to isolate that skill. Why are you limiting yourself like this though? I'm not saying it's bad to start small, but are you really going to, say... not number close a girl who you seem to get along with, just because that's not your current quest.
/r/seduction30/06/12 10:05 PM
1

Is the point of seddit to help people get laid, or to be nice to people? At least I'm trying to help him. You're just smiling and patting him on the back as he walks in the wrong direction. One think I like about seddit is that you can usually express dissent without the hivemind getting butthurt. I dunno what happened in this thread though. I'm just sick of this "just be confident!" advice. I was "confident" for years, but I didn't stop creeping women out until people started giving me practica…
/r/seduction30/06/12 09:57 PM
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but mindset is everything right? No, it's not. Imagine a very confident man with asperger's syndrome going into a club and mumbling and staring at the ground while talking to people. Mindset is important, but it's not everything. There are lots of people out there who "don't give a fuck", but still don't get laid. I'm posting this from my main account in spirit of what I've decided to do. Watch out for player haters. When someone gets jealous of you and decides to make it their mission to make y…
/r/seduction30/06/12 03:06 PM
4

how?
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:50 PM
14

So, where do babies come from?
/r/seduction29/06/12 04:08 AM
-1

Maybe I just have really good game, and people are downvoting me because they're jelly.
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:13 PM
6

Maybe she's a PUA.
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:03 PM
6

dat momentum
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:55 PM
-3

If you can't pull off a threesome, then you have no game.
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:51 PM
2

How much of a difference does dressing sharp make when it comes to picking up girls?
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:39 PM
-3

The seddit locator serves the same purpose as this thread in a more efficient manner. This thread does not need to exist.
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:08 PM
0

You want to have vagina and also eat it? I think most girls would not complain if you wanted to do that. I only read the tl;dr version though.
/r/seduction24/06/12 11:22 PM
3

I'll talk to you ;_;
/r/seduction24/06/12 01:05 AM
1

Being a virgin at 19 is not a big deal. And if you're hanging out here and learning the stuff that seddit teaches, it shouldn't be too hard to lose your virginity without paying money.
/r/seduction24/06/12 12:07 AM
2

ok don't do it then. Grow a beard and get swole.
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:48 PM
2

How did you use that tropical storm line and not get laid?
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:32 PM
1

I don't get what you're saying. I'm not even saying I disagree with it or anything. I can't figure out what the message you are trying to get across is. Are you for or against natural game? How does this relate to the spammer? Are you for or against PUA techniques? I can't tell.
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:28 PM
3

That sux I get told I look like 10 years younger than I am, but I don't look like a teenager. You should go pick up some 16 year olds.
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:37 PM
2

So I'm going after women my own age, and I feel like they don't even give me a chance because I look so young and teenager-like. I doubt that your looks are the reason that happens. I can't do most younger girls. I find a lot of them honestly offer me nothing other than sex, which is fine but not really what I'm looking for totally. I doubt their age is the reason that happens.
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:51 PM
1

This world is a brutal place. Victory belongs to those who are heartless, unforgiving, and dominant. Success comes to those who fight at all costs, with no regard for their fellow man. I was raised to be kind to others, and therefore I get walked all over...if I get noticed at all. If it makes you feel better, the world used to be a lot more violent, and it's getting better all the time. Ever read "Sperm Wars" by Robin Baker? Evolutionary biology may be a hotly debated science, but if what that …
/r/seduction22/06/12 04:37 PM
2

Even bigger than Santa Claus?
/r/seduction22/06/12 03:49 PM
5

You seem to have diagnosed your problem as a lack of confidence. (I'm not sure what exactly this means, since confidence can mean different things to different people.) We have no way of knowing if your diagnosis is correct. You would have to provide us with information about what you are doing, and maybe we can tell you what you're doing wrong. You see yourself as "shy, sensitive, and weak," but maybe women would use other words to describe you, such as: creepy, weird, scary. Then again, maybe …
/r/seduction22/06/12 03:35 PM
2

Someone post the kino pdf for this guy. The old link in the sidebar is dead -_-
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:49 PM
1

I used to blush a lot when I talked to girls. It stopped being a problem as I got more experience.
/r/seduction21/06/12 02:41 PM
2

I would have just messaged all the girls in my phone who have nexted me with "Let's bang."
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:37 PM
-15

Can it be both?
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:32 PM
2

I don't think anyone has 'good' social skills naturally Scientists have shown that Asperger's and autism are influenced partially by genetics, so I think some people are definitely just born with better social skills than others.
/r/seduction08/06/12 12:46 AM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge Skip down to the part where it says "Threading-the simplest and most effective conversation technique"
/r/seduction07/06/12 11:32 PM
3

I used to be close friends with 3 girls but since applying PUA these relationships have descended into a manipulative sexual triangle, where I'm gaming all of them and making them guess. I detect a noob who thinks he is a badass.
/r/seduction07/06/12 12:19 PM
3

If you're socially awkward (and you seem to be) you might want to avoid hitting on girls there just to avoid shitting where you eat. There are plenty of other places to pick up girls. One good social outing should have to approaching as many girls are there probably are in your MMA class, so it's not like this MMA class is some huge seduction opportunity that you are passing up. Aside from that, maybe you can do this to them: http://www.spike.com/video-clips/oo1nu7/mma-girls-joanne-is-choked-unc…
/r/seduction07/06/12 05:27 AM
1

Don't let it die after Hi, how are you, I'm good. Find anything else to talk about at all. Did I miss anything? Yeah, I'd say that you shouldn't even be asking "How are you?" (at first). Read these comments from the thread: "Hi, how are you? Where are you going?" is "I wanna rub my nupples on your toes" kind of territory. I received a PM a few days ago asking which university I go to, with NO reasoning as to why i should tell the person. Needless to say I didn't say which one. Consider that it's…
/r/seduction04/06/12 04:39 AM
1

Oh, yeah, that makes sense. I guess that would have worked if he had realized as they were getting off the train that she was creeped out. He also could have just not let her go first.
/r/seduction03/06/12 05:15 PM
3

http://www.quickmeme.com/meme/3pkabs/
/r/seduction03/06/12 04:56 PM
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http://www.quickmeme.com/meme/3pka81/
/r/seduction03/06/12 04:47 PM
1

The way he handled it was just fine. What else would he have done... walked up to her and said "I'm not going to rape you."?
/r/seduction03/06/12 12:48 PM
4

How do you dress? How is your hair? Do you work out? How's your body language? Do you know about situational openers? Consider that it's kind of strange that you would walk up to someone and ask them how they are and where they're going. Why do you care about that information? And why would she care to tell you, when she doesn't know anything about you? The things you were asking her were interview mode questions. You want to keep things a little more flirty and playful at first. You might have …
/r/seduction03/06/12 12:43 PM
1

2012 not being in boss mode 24/7 ISHYGDDT
/r/seduction03/06/12 04:55 AM
2

I only said it was something for him to think about. It all depends on the girl, and on what he wants. If it's just some party girl you're never going to see again, then just jam it in without telling her. If it's a nerdy girl who is used to dealing with neckbeards, you might tell her.
/r/seduction02/06/12 07:04 PM
2

Kino escalation ladder is meant for girls you just approached. It's kind of odd to think about that stuff with your girlfriend. And even if you were following the ladder, why would you kiss her first? Kissing comes near the end.
/r/seduction02/06/12 06:13 PM
3

only if they weren't in boss mode
/r/seduction02/06/12 06:01 PM
1

"Phew, that was close. I almost experienced a moment of happiness."
/r/seduction02/06/12 05:58 PM
6

Post your location, and maybe you can meet up with OP.
/r/seduction02/06/12 05:52 PM
5

waiting for marriage I think that would make her even more weirded out than if you just said you were shy, but that you were trying to get out more now. You also get bonus points for telling the truth.
/r/seduction02/06/12 05:50 PM
13

get a nice haircut buy clothes that fit lift barbells
/r/seduction02/06/12 03:05 PM
5

The girl who took my virginity knew and didn't care. Then again she was a huge nerd and a serial devirginizer. I see some people recommending that you don't tell a girl that you're a virgin. Keep in mind that you are going to be inexperienced, so if you let a girl know that you're a virgin, she might cut you some slack if you're horrible at sex at first. ...just something to think about.
/r/seduction02/06/12 01:49 PM
3

no
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:21 PM
1

This should be in /r/askseddit.
/r/seduction29/05/12 03:21 PM
0

I think you could probably stand to write a better description of what kinds of things are supposed to go in seddit vs askseddit. Just looking at askseddit right now, I see a couple field reports in there. My interpretation of the posting guidelines would be that all field reports should go in seddit, even if they're written by a beginner.
/r/seduction28/05/12 08:34 PM
5

Some people can't read the FAQ. It gets redundant. This is a problem that forums have had to deal with for decades. /r/fitness deals with it by spamming this in noob threads: Hi! Welcome to Fittit! You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have collected answers to your question right here. Welcome!
/r/seduction28/05/12 08:28 PM
42

People don't want to see tons of "There's this girl in my class. How do I talk to her?" posts in /r/seduction, but the mods don't want to be mean and completely tell the noobs to screw off, so they created a ghetto for them. Seriously, seddit would consist of nothing but "There's this girl... There's this girl... There's this girl... There's this girl... There's this girl... There's this girl... "
/r/seduction28/05/12 05:34 PM
1

why?
/r/seduction28/05/12 05:22 AM
2

Blaming the victim! :p
/r/seduction27/05/12 02:23 PM
25

I'm sorry but no amount of reading can help a person out if he can't actually talk. Why not? There's books about how to deal with social anxiety. There's no reason a person can't read something and take advice. And even if something can't be learned by reading, they can read about how it can't be learned by reading, and read about what needs to be done instead to learn it. So advising a person to read is still a good start.
/r/seduction26/05/12 10:08 PM
5

Well, there are ugly guys getting laid, and there are ugly guys who are getting laid more after having learned pickup. That should tell you what you need to know about her perspective--that it's just her perspective.
/r/seduction26/05/12 02:55 PM
7

"Cool. I have a math test tomorrow." "I thought we were talking about things we were going to cheat on."
/r/seduction26/05/12 02:33 AM
27

gives all the other dudes a heads up It also gives all the other girls a heads up about you.
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:48 AM
2

Everybody in my family is delusional and thinks I'm handsome and super-cool so I don't even bother. I know that feel. Grandmother: Oh, anon, why don't you have a girlfriend? ...just don't want one? Me: Uhh... yeah. That's totally the reason why.
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:44 AM
14

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_stages_of_competence
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:03 AM
2

http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=8&mn=1261566993592678
/r/seduction16/05/12 01:49 PM
1

DO IT, FAGGOT! Seriously, though. I'm not in DC, but if you have people and you go out together already, there's no reason you shouldn't have a subreddit. Just take the 2 minutes to register one.
/r/seduction14/05/12 08:41 AM
1

I wouldn't take her on a first date that costs $15. What if you don't get along at all and want the date to end quickly?
/r/seduction14/05/12 12:20 AM
1

Well, you'll notice that people generally agree on the basic principals. Aside from that, possible reasons for contradictory advice are: You have misunderstood something. One piece of advice is wrong. It doesn't actually matter, and it is just a preference. One piece of advice is aimed at one type of situation; another is aimed at another situation. For instance, someone who does daygame might give different advice than someone who goes to clubs. Someone who tries to pick up shy, bookish girls m…
/r/seduction14/05/12 12:06 AM
2

I mean does she know you are a part of the PUA community?
/r/seduction13/05/12 11:57 PM
1

Does she know you post here?
/r/seduction13/05/12 06:02 AM
2

He's a grouchy old fart who is angry that he didn't get to bang shitloads of teenage girls when he had a chance. "I didn't get to do it, so neither will you, goddamnit!"
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:59 PM
1

I don't have a problem giving advice to high school kids. I think it's great if we can get them to stop acting like aspies when they are still young, before their social problems fester out of control. A high school kid who is lonely is in just as much pain as an adult who is lonely.
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:57 PM
2

The seddit mods don't mod. You guys need to appoint some more mods, or start spending more time moderating or something.
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:53 PM
1

Yeah, but I'm asking if women in relationships are more willing to want to do this, and is there some way that we could prove that that is the sole factor that makes them more willing. I realize that you don't have the answer. It was just a question I asked for the sake of curiosity.
/r/seduction21/04/12 04:37 PM
1

But most women aren't with a guy who is the top of the top, so it should still be true that women in relationships would be more likely to be interested in casual sex. I'm not sure how this could be tested, though, since being in a relationship would be correlated with tons of other factors that would influence whether you would be down for casual sex. Also, women might lie on a survey, so the only way to test it would be to get an ALPHA guy to go around banging married women. Ethics committees …
/r/seduction21/04/12 01:35 AM
5

body language, the way you said hello, your approach, etc... I think you missed another big possibility: bad luck Even the smoothest guys have this happen to them sometimes.
/r/seduction20/04/12 11:24 PM
4

I agree. I am a drunk girl. How dare he slander my people!
/r/seduction20/04/12 09:21 PM
2

Well, somebody's jimmies are rustled.
/r/seduction20/04/12 07:15 PM
1

women are substantially less interested in casual sex because of the reproductive cost incurred by potential pregnancy I never really thought about this before, but shouldn't that mean that women who are in relationships are more likely to want casual sex? Scientists should find a way to test this hypothesis. I would gladly volunteer to participate in an experiment.
/r/seduction20/04/12 07:13 PM
5

People shouldn't be too judgmental of slutty girls. Females are physically attractive for such a short period of time in their lives. Not many people fantasize about banging women over 30, but men can still be banging younger women into their 40s. Girls need to slut it up while they can. In fact, if I were a girl I would totally be a slut.
/r/seduction20/04/12 07:10 PM
1

Die, monster! You don't belong in this world!
/r/seduction19/04/12 03:15 PM
1

3 legit pulls, 2 instances of going to a girl's place but getting LMR'd Is this a usual ratio of sex to LMR? I'm not very experienced, but I haven't really had any instances where I got alone with a girl, only to have her change her mind.
/r/seduction19/04/12 04:52 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qnxsy/fr_no_text_response_used_technique_i_learned_here/ Have you ever tried this technique?
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:20 PM
4

haha why didn't you say that to the woman who was arguing with you instead of continuing to insist that women are illogical?
/r/seduction18/04/12 09:20 PM
8

I was going to come in and call you out for being sexist for saying that. I was going to say something like: "Women are attracted to practical things, like money and power, but men only want tits and ass. So maybe you have it backwards." Then I started to think about what you said. I still think it's sexist, but I admit that maybe you have a point, at least in the context of flaking. You see, I don't think it's that women are illogical in general, but rather that women are just bombarded with so…
/r/seduction18/04/12 09:02 PM
1

She might have been menstruating. You could have just pulled your cock out.
/r/seduction16/04/12 03:20 AM
3

At a social with a sorority I was rejected 23 times, Dude, you are a machine. If you have a work ethic like that, you are going to be really successful at this stuff once you start to get the hang of it.
/r/seduction14/04/12 04:09 PM
1

Ignore her. You shouldn't have lashed out at her like that. Just focus on interacting with other people now. hopeless fool your going to take us shopping there and buy us stuff haha it sounds like they were trying to flirt with you, but you completely missed it. Maybe you can meet up with some other sedditors who will help you with stuff. There's the seddit locator in the sidebar, and subreddits for different cities.
/r/seduction14/04/12 04:06 PM
1

Good posture, loud but no over bearing voice Well, when you say that girls are rejecting you right away, body language is the first problem that comes to mind. Can you videotape yourself and get people to analyze what you're doing wrong? We might even be able to point some things out if you post a video here. light contact on shoulders or upper back This is obligatory seddit reading material: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf Basically, you shouldn'…
/r/seduction14/04/12 03:52 PM
2

threesome!
/r/seduction14/04/12 02:18 PM
1

You could go to a place where there's no loud music. I guess some people know how to pick up girls in places where you can't talk to them, but I haven't figured it out.
/r/seduction14/04/12 02:07 PM
1

Almost any girl I try to talk to (besides friends girlfriends) reject me before I can get my name across How's your body language?
/r/seduction14/04/12 02:46 AM
1

http://datingamerican.blogspot.com/2012/04/cock-blocking-girlfriend.html
/r/seduction13/04/12 11:47 PM
1

Obligatory reading: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction13/04/12 11:43 PM
-2

Why did so many people upvote this?
/r/seduction13/04/12 11:32 PM
1

It seems like you did a lot better when you didn't have to try to talk over loud music. Do you think that was mostly the reason why you failed? Also, maybe don't try touching girls' shoulders so quickly. Have you read the escalation ladder? You can start with touching hands or arms, and they will be more comfortable.
/r/seduction13/04/12 09:54 PM
1

Game theory... You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:57 PM
3

I dunno. I never had any problems with it. Then again, I keep my IM conversations around 20-30 minutes long. Also I've been doing it for a long time, so I'm good at it. My years of being a hikikomori paid off!
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:41 PM
2

This seems pretty iffy. Maybe you can take some good pieces of advice from that, but I don't see how reality is going to fit into some classification system like this. And how do you know this is true to begin with? Is this system based on some sort of scientific study? I have read a lot about psychology, but I've never heard what you are talking about mentioned before. It seems like one person's pet hypothesis.
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:42 PM
3

my other work friends goes "hey, look at him, he's trying to impress you." nice friend you have... "store with care, VIP number" I keep seeing guys on seddit say they used this line, and it's always in posts where they're asking why the girl didn't respond. You could just call her immediately after she puts your number in her phone. (or vice versa) This is a VIP post. Read with care.
/r/seduction12/04/12 07:35 PM
1

Whatever. I'd just advise people to keep using the old one. Why do we need people categorized by location? Sure, it's not bad, but I never had any problems locating people, so why throw out all the work that has gone into making the old locator because of one missing feature? (...which people are probably going to screw up on the new locator anyway) And how does a list of people get outdated? It's not like reddit usernames go bad after a while or something. People are going to be stuck checking …
/r/seduction12/04/12 07:25 PM
1

The point of seddit is that we take a general problem like "I'm not attractive.", or "I can't make friends.", and break it down into smaller problems. For example, a guy may come in here and say that he is mystified as to why he can't get laid, and then we tell him that there's no one problem that is causing this, but that there are many problems, such as bad body language, bad hygiene, bad kino, inability to flirt, etc., and that if he fixes those, he can start to make progress. For you, I don'…
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:32 PM
2

Wait, what was wrong with the old one? With a thing like that, the entire point is to have everyone in the same place. Why would we want two locators?
/r/seduction12/04/12 12:58 PM
2

How could you have learned that on seddit? There's a guide to texting in the sidebar, and I've seen tons of FRs, some even written by the mods, that involve texting. Maybe there's a link between the fact that you aren't practicing seduction and the fact that you're giving bad advice.
/r/seduction11/04/12 11:34 PM
1

Pretend to be friends with a girl so that you can get close to her, then suddenly confess your love for her.
/r/seduction11/04/12 10:43 PM
2

I never did. I have had sex with girls who were bisexual and who said they were willing to have a threesome with me, but I could never find another girl to do it with. When will it be mine time for threesome ;_;
/r/seduction11/04/12 10:33 PM
1

Who says you have to talk about sex? I think it's probably fine if the subject comes up, but with most of the girls I've hooked up with, we never talked about sex before we did it. Aside from that, flirting is done by using the push/pull method. And read the kino pdf in the sidebar to learn how to kino.
/r/seduction11/04/12 10:27 PM
1

wtf htf Why are these girls giving rejection messages at all? Does that happen? This is new to me.
/r/seduction11/04/12 12:41 AM
1

The Playette FAQ gave me a semi.
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:01 AM
1

I like to think that your comment is going to cause him to check out a book on proper writing, and later on that's going to grant him the ability to seduce a grammar nazi, and seddit will have helped someone get laid yet again.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:42 AM
0

It's an internet meme. Judging by the upvotes I got, I'm not the only one who thought it.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:36 AM
7

dont u get the impression that if you do the right thing and say the right thing, you ll be able to lay a woman regardless of if she has a man or not ? No, it seems like successful PUAs approach tons of women and don't care about rejection. Sure, master PUAs are better at convincing women to sleep with them, but the difference between a beginner and a master is still the difference between being able to convince a small minority of the women that you approach to sleep with you, and being able to…
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:53 PM
8

At least spaghetti didn't start falling out of your pockets.
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:42 PM
0

"OK, you just said you have to work in the morning. But, what I heard was "I'm pretending I don't like you and can't get some delicious food with you right now"" I sent these incredibly gorgeous girls a message and after the first 3 messages the responses stopped. In my next three messages I basically call them out on the discontinued communication and challenge them as to why they aren't responding to me I can't imagine this going over well.
/r/seduction07/04/12 08:35 PM
3

I texted her an hour later saying that I didn't think we should see each other Why would you do this?
/r/seduction06/04/12 12:48 AM
21

This advice is based on a sample size of one.
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:46 PM
2

A+ would read again Do you have any links or book recommendations for how to learn how to do this kind of stuff?
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:27 PM
5

I recommend checking it out on the blog when you get a chance You planned this out, didn't you. And you broke off the OP post in an intentionally suspenseful part. You sneaky bastard :D
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:24 PM
1

Embarresingly she didn't recgonize me and I didn't really know what to do from there so we stopped talking. Who gives a fuck? You could have just said something like "Oh, you don't remember me? I'm JerkingOffToKarma." And if you get stuck in a conversation, just use conversation threading: http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge How do I escalate after her shoulder brushes on me(multiple times) and I touch her a little? This is requi…
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:04 PM
1

I just went and checked the fastseduction female forum. In one year, they had a total of 26 posts, and most of them were by the same small handful of females. I would love to be proven wrong, but as far as I can tell, there are just not enough females interested in seduction to build an interesting community.
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:14 AM
3

I don't have a problem with unisex seddit. We've had women, and gay men and women post field reports, and give their feedback in discussions, and I think it adds to everyone's experience to have different viewpoints. The big problem I see is that female centric posts are so few, that they get buried among the male centric posts, so other female PUAs won't be able to see them. Females could post on the female seduction subreddit, but it's a ghost town, so no one would see their posts. (And I don'…
/r/seduction05/04/12 01:29 AM
1

Are you aware of the seddit locator in the sidebar?
/r/seduction04/04/12 10:45 PM
6

in high school, girls will be less likely to do things like kiss in the first few hours of meeting somebody Says who? If you have game, girls will be willing. I'm old, but I've had offers from younger girls. I've never taken them up, but I have done things that were barely legal, and I know those girls didn't suddenly get slutty on their birthdays. You have to understand that girls, especially if they are in a situation like high school, will jealously guard their reputation, and deny that they …
/r/seduction04/04/12 09:12 PM
3

I think her and her girlfriends are probably saying that they don't like it when a guy suddenly rams his tongue down their throat with no warning. We have the kino escalation ladder to take care of this particular problem. Their proposed solution, that one should ask before kissing, is a bad one, but at least you can understand the sentiment that caused them to come to this conclusion.
/r/seduction04/04/12 03:09 PM
2

Well we do that often enough. I guess you're right. We do give some advice. But we've studied seduction. It wouldn't be so bad if a fpua was giving advice to a man, but OP seems to be coming in and saying "I have not put any effort into learning seduction, but I am a woman, and solely because of this fact, I have special knowledge about how men should go about seducing women." 9 ya lol I thought that too. I'm imagining a couple cuddling in bed, making eye contact, running their hands through eac…
/r/seduction04/04/12 03:03 PM
0

how do i green
/r/seduction04/04/12 01:59 PM
8

Just so that OP doesn't think we are sexist, I'd like to point out that we'd also think it was stupid if a straight male was giving dating advice to a female.
/r/seduction04/04/12 01:45 PM
3

80% efficiency suuuure, anonymous, sure
/r/seduction04/04/12 04:37 AM
4

Why? He's getting laid. What else matters? It's not like we get extra points for hard-mode.
/r/seduction03/04/12 04:33 PM
3

If you don't like it, start your own subreddit. But don't be surprised if no one wants to post there, since it will consist of nothing but guys asking "how to talk to this one girl". We like seddit because of its high quality, and part of maintaining that high quality is having the mods prune bad posts, even if the majority of voters like those posts. Could you imagine if a scientific journal stopped using the peer review process? All the scientists who read that journal would stop subscribing, …
/r/seduction02/04/12 04:21 PM
2

he'll hang out with a girl for almost 2 months (maybe 2 times a week) before he makes a move! I tell him that this is too long Tell him that these girls have probably met and fucked like three other guys in the time that they've known him.
/r/seduction30/03/12 11:38 PM
1

Can I ask how long this is all taking? You're not going from kissing to trying to take clothes off in like two minutes are you?
/r/seduction29/03/12 09:31 PM
9

I'm trying to understand his mentality here. His friend got hit on by a girl, so now he figures the girl is... easy or something? So he wants to hit on her himself? It sounds embarrassing.
/r/seduction29/03/12 05:18 AM
2

Holy shit! All my life I haven't been able to get laid, but that's all gonna change now that I've memorized a couple cheesy lines. Thanks, OP!
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:32 AM
2

Magic Bullets
/r/seduction28/03/12 06:06 PM
4

Text 2 days later This might be part of your problem.
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:55 PM
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