Question on Plowing

dkismet · 2012-11-03T18:40:16+00:00

I too had difficulty plowing and couldn't find any in-depth explanations in any Rsd materials. What I've recently come to realize is that 'running out of things to say' happens because your seeking a positive reaction from the girl.

If you get no reaction or a negative reaction it discourages you from continuing talking. This is happens because in a slight way you are reacting to how they are reacting to you.

Plowing is the idea that you stop looking/noticing their reactions and just talk. You talk as if your eyes were closed and you couldn't tell whether they like you or not. You talk as if it was your best friend and your completely comfortable.

You never run out of things to say with your best friend.

It's also easier when you don't feel the need to say anything impressive. When you can approach, and just talk for the sake of talking. Humor is nice, but not necessary. When you are able to approach feeling good and continue to feel good regardless of how they react to you, you are able to continue talking and at some point they realize that they can relax around you.

TL;DR: plowing is a combo of holding state, being non-reactive (physically, emotionally, mentally), understanding you are enough (regardless of what you say/don't say), feeling good and continue talking.

caulking · 2012-11-03T22:24:51+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/gkia7/its_not_that_i_have_aa_its_just_that_i_really/c1omhge

skeletondog · 2012-11-03T18:15:36+00:00

No, don't check out until you're 100 certain. I used to be terrible at this.

If you're running out of material it may be good to re revaluate whether you're relying on canned stuff too much. If you're drawing her into the conversation then she should be holding up her end, you don't want to get into the dynamic of being the one sided "entertainer".

kisses_and_nudity · 2012-11-03T22:06:34+00:00

Classic guide by Savoy.

2012-11-04T02:16:58+00:00

Craig Ferguson is a master of plowing. Observe: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lVWU4zKOB3g

Title	Question on Plowing
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Date	November 3, 2012 6:01 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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