Need help

terramir · 2019-10-24T13:15:18+00:00

The best impression you can leave is being genuinely interested in what she has to say. Girls are human and humans like talking about themselves. Ask them questions about themselves to start a conversation. What music? What hobbies? What shows are you into?

axe122 · 2019-10-24T13:17:18+00:00

Focus on your school work. Girls are trouble and drama. Don’t worry about keeping up with your friends or classmates. Enjoy your youth. I’m a female who started dating at 14. If I could go back, I wouldn’t date. Lol too much of a headache. Unnecessary drama in high school when I could have just been making good grades and having fun with my girlfriends.

axe122 · 2019-10-24T14:45:15+00:00

It can be sexual lol I didn’t know that more than half the girls in my high school did sexual things by 17. Even if your only able to make out with the girl that’s cool. Your young so a lot of girls aren’t gonna have sexual yet but if your making out with them and putting off a sexual vibe if you have a girlfriend she’ll want to sleep with you when she’s ready and you’ll be getting experience interacting with a girl on a romantic level (even if that means just making out with different girls) the younger you other the more clear the lines of who’s potential for dating and who isn’t are. What I mean by that is most of the guys won’t even be considered a potential romantic interest unless your really showing your (cool,confident and interesting) the reason I think it’s like this is most teenage boys are still just hitting puberty or haven’t hit their growth spurt yet. Unless your one of the guys who’s like a grown man when hes 14, a top athlete (usually the same type of guy) or a bad boy you really have to put yourself out there and go for it, the girls won’t come to you cuz it’s a clear definition between who still looks like boys and who’s looking more like men. They want the guys who look closest to men. I looked in my high school year book a year or 2 ago and all the girls everyone thought were hot looked like women in high school but 60% of the average girls ended up becoming the hottest ones at about 20-24 so don’t set your sites on the girls that are hot now, try flirting and being playful with the girls who aren’t cool and hot cuz most of them will be hot by the time they are 20 and you may run into them you’ll already have report with them.(I wish I woulda known that in high school) my point is that I think it’s just what happens teenage years guys want the girls who look older and like women and girls want the guys who look more like men. I’ve seen young kids who weren’t the grown men type have girlfriends (I wasn’t one of them) but they basically weren’t afraid to put themselves out there. At your age most of the girls will be happy to just have a boyfriend so ask one of the ones you like to hang out and do something just the two of you tease her a little bit and kiss her. She’ll wanna hangout more and then at some point you’s become boyfriend girlfriend. Most guys when they are younger think you get in a relationship then you hookup but it’s actually the other way around. A kiss if only a big deal cuz half the people never did it before but if you kiss a girl when yous are hanging a lone at your age she’ll most likely just be happy someone’s picking her lol you don’t even have to have much game unless your not super popular and she’s a cheerleader, then your competing against every guy in the school and if you have no social skills and no real social value your gonna have to probly learn some game and how to act around her to get a girl like that interested. At the very least even if you try you’ll be so much further ahead than all the other guys in your school and you’ll be in better shape to get a girl in college. If you don’t talk to any girls and even try to flirt with them now it’s only gonna get harder in college then if you don’t do it in college it gets a lot harder after that’s how people end up becoming 39 -40 year old virgins. I really don’t think your headed down that path lol I’m just tryna make a point that you should start acting sooner than later and go for what you want. The only real failure is not trying, rejection isn’t that bad and it takes many men years and years to realize that. Good luck

2019-10-24T16:24:52+00:00

Dude, I am 24 and never had a gf. Focus on school.

rolandthebarbarian · 2019-10-24T18:11:43+00:00

Girls will flock to you if you become the best at something in your school. I.e. sports, band, dancing, language, religion, debate class... whatever, it doesn’t matter. Maybe orient yourself toward the place you find the women most attractive. Find something you’re passionate about and girls will just gravitate toward your excellence. Doing the work brings confidence. Pick the best of the bunch and enjoy. One thing I should have learned earlier is that what you do should never be for getting the girl, getting the girl is just a by product of what you do for yourself.

Title	Need help
Author	ItzDaJoka0
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Comments	10
Date	October 24, 2019 12:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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