Seddit, I posted to /r/relationship_advice about a week ago and it didn't garner any responses. So, I am asking here. Hell, it's these tips that helped land this girl in the first place.

About 4 months ago I started fooling around with a co-worker. The more time I spent with her, though, the more time I wanted to spend with her. However, I was still playing the field and not ready to stick with one girl. But, she eventually confessed deep feelings for me and I played it off because I was not ready to deal with a relationship. (Although, at this point she was calling me her boyfriend).

Flash forward to three weeks ago, she went on a family vacation out of state. So, I used that time to enjoy some alone time. I kept our text conversations brief (My phone speaker is busted so, no calls). But, I also realized I am really into this girl and want to progress our relationship.

The day she came back, she broke up with me. Citing I was "Emotionally distant" and at times "Mean". I confessed my feelings (Like an idiot) and she thinks I am just saying it out of desperation. However, I have seen a lot of clues to show she is still interested (FB relationship status unchanged, my picture's still in her work locker, she drove 30 minutes to hug me on Fathers Day).

Now, work is awkward. She now bitch-shields me and is expressing interest in an obstacle who worked his way in while we were still dating as "a friend". The little we do talk (regarding work), the body language still shows interest, but she isn't responding to kino or fluff.

It's been two weeks since the split and I want her back. I thought she would be cooled down now to approach again, but no. Any advice, Seddit?

TL;DR: Dated a coworker - got hot and heavy for a while - became serious LTR - I never told her my feelings - I ignored her while she was on vacation - she dumped me and I want her back. Help?