I have been trying online dating since last August and have had mediocre result IMO. I mainly use Tinder and OkCupid, but have been trying out other apps as well. I seem to get about 10 legit matches a month on Tinder.

I have tried different bios, "'6", or general information about me. My current Tinder bio is "I'm a super fly IT guy looking for someone to hang with over the summer for funin' and lovin'. Message me if you're interested in assuming the position." I figured I needed more humor in my bio and texts. I think this current bio also adds a little tounge in cheek sexual humor.

I have a major problem with girls losing interest even when I use "date talk" at the beginning. They seem enthusiastic at first, sometimes even giving me their number, but then they are always busy and end up ghosting.

For those of you that are looking for hookups, are your openers overtly sexual? Do you always meetup in public first? I'm not sure how sexual I should be at the start.

I've had two dates and a semi-hookup. One date through Tinder, the other date and semi-hookup were through OkCupid. I'm a decent looking guy, rated 5-7 on amiugly. I have an average build.

The thing that gets me is my friend has had multiple hookups through Tinder and he has similar looks, body weight, and build to me. So it seems my main problem is how I game.

Do you consider my results good, bad, or crap?