First Really Kino Meetup. I Need Feedback.

I went to a random bar through the MeetUp app last weekend with an indian guy and indian girl, no they were not related. Things started off slow, but I eventually started digging the indian girl who had a British accent (This accent drives me wild). The indian guy was into her too, but I definitely was with her most of the time.

We danced after having enough drinks, something I haven't even been able to do before in the past, even drunk. Did some side hip slams, high fives, faced each other, etc.

We were both pretty drunk and ended up playing darts. I was the most kino I have ever been with a woman, I eventually said "need a kiss for good luck?". She heard me, but pretended that she didn't and said "what?", so I backed off, was this a shit test? Earlier in the night I told her "you're cute, you know", and she laughed and said "why, because I'm short?" so I backed off a little by saying "no, no".

I plan on going to the same bar tomorrow night and trying cold approching.

For being a 25 virgin it was my biggest step so far. I just need to get started on cold approching, but am mostly concerned with finding the single girls, or knowing what to say at first.

I'm making progress, slowly. How did I do?

[–]sporker8791 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like a great step up from how you have been previously, but the thing that sticks out to me here is asking of you should kiss her, here's why:

1) Just kiss her - the worst that will happen is she will pull away and you shrug it off and carry on as if you never tried

2) "Do you need a kiss for good luck" is just weird. I get the logic behind you saying it, but when I read it I said to myself "What?" just like she did.

Hindsight is wonderful, but my course of action would have been to maintain the kino hardcore so that hugging her, highfiving her, grabbing her by the arm and guiding her were all completely natural behaviours - then instead of asking if she wants a good luck kiss, give her an overt hug and then kiss her anyway saying 'good luck', maybe even bending her over backwards Hollywood style if the vibe was playful enough.

But good work anyway, kino was an eye opener for me years and years ago.

[–]pool2018[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I guess I'm still fighting some strong mental blocks. Since this was my first time doing a lot of kino I didn't want to come off as creepy by constantly touching her, I'm normally not a touchy feely person, I figured I did it enough. As far as just going for a kiss, I'm still fighting a mental block that there needs to be some kind if build up to it which is why I figured asking if she needed a kiss for good luck was clever. In my mind if I just go for a kiss it would sexual harassment or something, a Harvey Weinstein / Trump sort of thing.

I know I'm good looking, I'm not even anywhere close to how bad I looked when I was 18. I look like a completely different person. Contacts, haircut, and a little effort went a looooong way.

Approach mental block 1. I think she is attractive, but is she single? If I approach what do I say? Am I going to get beat up by the bartender / bouncer / friends (male or female) if she gets upset? Am I going to look like a loser if other bar patrons see the rejection?

Kiss mental block

I want to kiss her, but what if were not at that point yet? I would feel creepy pulling her chin to get in the kissing position. Generally not sure how to do the kiss itself.

Title	First Really Kino Meetup. I Need Feedback.
Author	pool2018
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	July 6, 2018 11:32 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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