Need tips on getting girls as an introvert

DaygameCode · 2024-09-23T10:04:42+00:00

You can cold-approach women and start 10 min conversations to build a connection with women on college campuses, parks, beaches, etc because those are places where women may not necessarily be on a rush as they could be just chilling or on a lunch break or simply doing some exercise, etc.

Cold-approach is not about asking girls for numbers, it’s about is about walking up to random women telling them that “_you want to get to know them because you like her style, her outfit, her vibe, or whatever you like about her, and would regret it if you didn’t try_”.

This means that if they say sure to that, you actually have what you could describe as a preliminary date. You have a 10 minute conversation where you talk about your experiences and feelings about those experiences so that she can relate to you, and you can relate to her.

The connection is built by talking about how you feel about the things you do or have done, or the things you plan on doing. Talking about how you feel about things you did is more important than listing the things you did. Women connect by hearing how you feel about things.

Cold approaching can feel nerve wrecking because you may feel like you are interrupting women, or being intrusive, but all you have to do is to tell them at the beginning that ”you don’t wanna take too much time from them because you know they did not come here to talk to you, but would regret it if you didn’t try to get to know them, if that’s cool with them.

When you do this, it’s far more likely that they will respond well even if they said they are not interested. They will smile and be polite about it because you were polite and you asked them for permission.

So you don’t need to assume that women will be upset with you, because first you ask for permission and show them that you understand that you are aware of how unusual the situation is and can empathise with them which builds trust and makes them relax.

Title	Need tips on getting girls as an introvert
Author	SteroidPotato
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	September 23, 2024 9:51 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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