I have had 1 casual relationship in college which didn’t last long and fizzled out because my best friend died and the relationship had just started. Then had 1 serious one in grad school with a girl who turned out to be toxic for me. I’m not into hookups and have had only one so far when I was really drunk. I have dated many girls but it never turns into a relationship or even a friendship.

I’m around 5’8”/5’9” introvert Indian male (from India) who has lived across North America. I do match with girls on dating apps which sometimes turn into dates but nothing happens of them. I’m not needy although I used to be earlier. I’m usually very busy so I have less alternatives other than OLD. Can you give me honest opinions on how to meet women? Should I try speed dating? I want a serious relationship.