Hey. I'm 22 at uni studying to be a pe teacher. I love what I do and I'm going to camp america this year and plan to travel after which should be amazing.

Since my first girlfriend (back when I was 18) I've never got really close to a girl in a relationship sense, always seeming to fuck it up, by over thinking and the like. I've had sex with multiple girls, but all one night stands. I've also had lots of dates, but with these I often get friendzoned. I think that my problem is that the girls I take out on dates I've already screened as girlfriend material and then act different somehow leading to friendzoned.. And then other girls I've had one night stands with who are interested I would rather chase the girls I haven't slept with. It's always a case of want what I can't have.

Anyway.. 99% of my one night stands I can't attribute down to my own 'game' I believe it was mainly a case of the girl deciding she was having sex that night and I got lucky cause I don't think I'm that bad looking..

So where do I start? I want to be confident in all areas of my life and especially when it comes to meeting the right girl to get her as part of my life in a girlfriend way.

All advice appreciated..

Thanks in advanced guys!