Nice guy needs your help

AmigodoCarlos · 2019-08-24T10:06:06+00:00

Being a nice guy is different from being a guy with lack of success with women.

As long as you're not a desperate guy, needy, getting triggered through the roof when you get rejected and start name calling the girl who rejected you, you're not a nice guy, you just lack sucess with women.

Look, based on what you said, I cant really figure out what's your way of thinking. Anyway, girls are normal persons, they're just like any other person, they have insecurities, they are shy, they have their own problems as well. So, if you think that girls are like some divine beings, try to get that thought out of your mind. I'm saying this because you only feel nervous or dont know what to say if you put girls on a pedestal, you see what I'm saying? I bet when you're talking to your Male friends you feel confident and you dont have any problems talking to them, so girls are the same, theres no need to be scared.

Now, in my case, obviously I have some filters when it comes to talking to girls, but nothing out of the ordinary, I just talk to them normally and if they don't like it, I'll adapt, If they still dont like it, then screw it, there are billions of girls in the world, literally.

Carebarehair · 2019-08-24T10:25:05+00:00

Stop chatting up strange women - they may be bunny-boilers, gold-diggers, cheats, of easy virtue etc etc.

Approach with the expectation that they should want to impress you, not the other way around.

TinderongKupido · 2019-08-24T09:45:10+00:00

Know your archetype and find a seduction style best suited for you. Definitely not sasha day game style but i would suggest james marshall (natural).

I am an introvert also and we cannot do what alpha males do ( extrovert). Best option would be sigma male traits. You cannot change your core personality but you can improve your true self and get better results.

This is why most people rejects seduction/pua because they want to follow a certain style ( extrovert) but they fail at it.

Also, when girls tell you to be charismatic, friendly and such. Do not listen to them, you just need to be comfortable with your personality.

If you cant talk a lot, talk little and be mysterious. Improve your body language and confidence.

https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc

smoothmax · 2019-08-24T16:57:17+00:00

Been there. Looking back, my female friends couldn't have been more clear in giving me solid advice about being more happy and sociable but I wasn't ready to listen.

If you like to read self help books, a good start is to read these:

The Six Pillars of Self Esteem

No More Mr Nice Guy

Models (by Mark Manson)

From there I would branch out into finding experts on style, grooming, daygame, nightgame, text game, Tinder, etc. and make it your mission to be a little bit more happy, sociable and attractive every month.

When consuming PUA products/videos, avoid like the plague anyone who to you looks anxious, creepy or try-hard. Look for coaches whose vibe resembles your ideal of what you want to be like.

Title	Nice guy needs your help
Author	darianwespunik
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	August 24, 2019 9:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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