Sup folks,

I'll start by saying that every weekend for the last two months I have been going to nightclubs and getting my dance on. As such I have had good nights, great nights and terrible nights. Bad thing is no matter how great the night was I have yet to really close any kind of deal (number, makeout, etc). So I am looking for some advice.

Basic rundown of the night is I run with a group of 3 other guys. I am the best dancer of the group and I usually go out and peacock by doing the booty shaking and whatnot that the girls usually do. This gets so many girls over to us, evertyime. Here is where the problems start. I am the short guy in my group... by a pretty big margin. The other 3 guys are taller and leaner and more "fit". So what happens is I end up being an amazing wingman. I bring the girls over in a very non threatening way, and then they can segway to one of my friends very easily, which is usually what happens. I am unsure how to stop this. Sometimes, I am not interested in the girl and then I don't mind helping out my bros, but other times I am extremely interested and just sort of "lose" her to my friends. Worst part is that 2 of them have girlfriends and they are the ones usually getting the most attention.

Should I just immediately transition from the dancing to buying her a drink? I have heard this is a bad idea. It's tough to start trying to talk to her on the dance floor due to how loud so heading to the bar would make it slightly quieter. Should I just swap to a more dominant dancing style grinding up on her... push the limits and whatnot? It's frustrating because I can bring them over no sweat almost guaranteed, but then something I am doing or not doing is causing me to lose them. Thanks for any advice.

TL;DR: I can get a ton of girls dancing with me in a nightclub by "dancing like a girl"(booty shakin, grinding on them) but they usually segway from dancing with me like that to dancing with one of my other male friends in a more sexual way. What should I do once I get their attention and have them dancing with me to start getting more progress. Buy them a drink? Try to shout at them? Start trying to grind on them?