No More Cold Approaching - Do This Instead

Throwaway_d · 2015-03-31T18:59:03+00:00

Another fucking useless article on approach anxiety and approaching, probably written by someone who has never done it.

"Approach when it feels natural"? Newsflash: if you're not comfortable approaching it won't ever feel natural.

"Cold approach is emotionally draining"? Yes of course it is, at first. So is going to a job interview. So what? Being lonely and frustrated is pretty draining too, that's why guys decide to start approaching.

I approach girls in the day all the time and let me tell you, most of them don't think its weird. It's not weird unless you make it weird. The girls I approach are smiling, laughing and touching me. Now tell me cold approaching doesn't pay off.

Robin-Hood · 2015-03-31T21:44:18+00:00

Written by chodes for chodes to talk themselves out of taking action

fantastic_damage · 2015-03-31T18:52:11+00:00

talk to whoever you want whenever

nor_iqhwan · 2015-03-31T21:20:35+00:00

It all depends on the situation. Most of the time a cold approach is better since if you don't do shit and wait, you'll lose an opportunity and will never know if the approach could have escalated into something else. A natural approach is more suited in an enviroment where you and the others, who are strangers at this point, share something in common, like a class, workplace et cetera. Eitherway cold approaches are only forced and awkward when one of the individual is uncomfortable and trying to end the conversation.

GrandAce · 2015-04-01T08:35:42+00:00

Isn't naturally approaching a girl just...living your life? Isn't "waiting to meet someone" against everything this sub is about? If you have to wait until something feels natural it's just like waiting for your dream girl to fall into your lap.

2015-03-31T19:22:32+00:00

Best PUA article i've read. Sometimes the information closest to the truth is the most simple

Title	No More Cold Approaching - Do This Instead
Author	BadassUdotNET
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	March 31, 2015 6:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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