Not even approach anxiety

AHigherTruth · 2018-10-23T15:40:20+00:00

Do u have natural anxiety? If so i advise u to not take drugs that will make it worse ( weed, shrooms, lsd ). I noticed how "fumbly" with my words weed had made me, this year. Also try to meditate and stay as calm as possible. I dont advise taking benzodiazepines, but they help a lot to relax if you are having anxiety. But first try just staying clear minded and see if that helps. Good luck!

hunterpua · 2018-10-23T19:48:37+00:00

"A king never rushes."

Take your time and shut the fuck up when you're thinking. The only time someone would lose interest when you're pausing and thinking of what to say is when you're saying "umm...", "ahh...", "you know", or "like" while doing so. If you keep radio silence while thinking or while you're pausing to calm yourself down then girls will keep their attention fixed on you waiting for what you have to say. Its where the phrase "hanging on every word" comes from.

Its weird but I used to get really nervous when doing the 5 Questions game, especially the part where you reveal that you just tricked them so what I did was just go a lot slower than I thought was necessary and during each pause I made sure to breathe properly and calm myself down and then when I get to the part where they think they've won but actually got tricked, I smile, its a nervous smile but in the girl's eyes it looks like a cheeky smile and they usually say, "What?" I pause a little longer and then say, "You gave me the right answer." (in case you're unfamiliar the object of that game is to answer 5 questions wrong) and then the girl usually explodes into a combination of laughter and playful annoyance, slapping you in the arm and flailing all over the place like they do, completely unaware that I was shitting myself the whole time.

This is also good for the long term because there is a legitimate method of conquering fears where you allow yourself to get uncomfortable then immediately calm yourself down, continue making yourself uncomfortable then calming yourself down again and repeating that process until you finish doing what you were originally afraid to do, just like you do when pausing during conversation, its called Systematic Desensitization. Safe to say nowadays if I do the 5 Question Game I'm completely relaxed and only pause for dramatic effect.

Title	Not even approach anxiety
Author	Atheist_Utopia
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	October 23, 2018 2:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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