been trying to get this girl I've known for years to drop the drawls recently but she's not budging. I hit her up when i was stoned but not really and she basically said she doesn't wanna talk to me when I'm under the influence of anything, like she wants me to approach her sober. she's a runner, a track star if you will and has miles but I think she thinks I'm a fool who'll be the finish line instead of the 10m marker. how do I close with her?