I met a girl a few days ago while visiting my parents and we had great chemistry and really hit it off. She lives in another city which is about 6 hours from where I live. We hung out every day for the three days before we both went back to the different cities we live in. The lat night we spent together she wasn't comfortable with kissing or cuddling. She seems attached already and sends good morning texts. The problem is she is super sweet and pretty and I really like her but over the phone we talked about how we view sexual relationships and she said she likes for things to move slowly and get to know a person beforehand.

So I see two different paths I can take; I can start a long term and long distance relationship with her that seems to have a long courtship period or I can continue trying to develop my haram.

I feel like dating her would be the easy way to avoid all the rejection from cold approach and game but it could also be the start of a good relationship.