Any advice? 30s M, came here for career and career is good; didn’t come here w a bunch of friends in the city. When I’m abroad, I find it much easier and fun, but I find NYC to be quite difficult. I do things solo and stopped having wingmen years ago. With tourists here, I find it easier, but have a harder time with dating the local women here. My success is quite sporadic. I don’t use the apps and rely primarily on cold approach / warm approach. Jan - April winter was particularly lonesome and brutal.