On an experience I had a night ago that worked well for me. The experience developed a new strategy for me that I think can work really well and thought I'd share it to see people's thoughts on it.

The night, I'm a senior in college and was at a party where I ended up with 2 girls in one night. I've been seeing this one awesome girl for a couple of weeks now (I'm graduating and don't want a gf so she's cool with being friends with benefits) and I was texting her that night and we basically made plans that I'd be going over to her place eventually that night. While I was at the party I wasn't looking to really "play the field" if you will, cause I already had my girl of the night figured out. So as I started talking to some girls that came up to me, I basically had the mind set of "I already have a hot girl on my menu for tn, idc about these girls, I'm just gonna be friendly". And low and behold I easily noticed one girl was brushing her big (beautiful lol) boobs on me multiple times (hugs / pushing her chest on me). So obvious sign she was interested, so I brought her up to my room where she gave me head (was awesome lol). Tbh kinda felt sleezy but yeah

Lessons ? When talking to girls, don't get worked up about the exact prospects in front of you at any given time. When talking to girls, imagine you already have a beautiful girl lined up for you that night and just go with the flow and focus on the conversation, not a goal of sleeping with them. It makes you come off as confident and shows them you have worth and that they need to get your interest, not the other way around. (and personally, I don't believe in mean spirited negging (don't be a douche when talking to them)).