Hello friends.
I hope you're doing well. I love the pursuit of knowledge. From science to psychology, we live in an extremely fascinating world.
The post I want to make today is about the attraction that is produced when one provides value. This can manifest in a number of ways, but in our case, anything that brings joy or satisfaction to others is what I'm talking about here.
When you provide value to the lives of others, its hard for you to not draw attraction. Women pick up on your charisma and your ability to make others feel comfortable. Potential buissness partners pick up on your abilitity to lead and hold the attention of a crowd.
Providing value is simply a matter of giving others a positive experience in relation to what you're providing.
For example, I'm writing this post coming from a party. As soon as I walked in, 85% of the people there knew who I was, said hello to me, and talked with me.
But why?
It's because in past interactions, I always made a point to convey interest. To make sure everyone was included to the best of my ability, so that everyone might potentially feel good about themselves and know that they are accepted. Thats what it means to provide value.
Even when it comes to products and services, relationships are built through trust; and trust is built through satisfaction coupled with understanding. If you continually deliver a high quality piece of content, service, or product, people will react positively to you and develop a bond with you.
Also, the more genuine you are, the better. Being genuine, true to who you are and saying how you feel is crucial. Energy is contagious, and if you start off in a group providing positive energy, you're far more likely to not only make yourself more welcome, but make those around you feel more welcome as well.
If you really want to succeed, if you really want to flourish, you must give. You must give others a reason, a purpose, an idea that you are someone who makes their life better and brings them halpiness in one way or another. And you should always strive to be that person, because those are the people who keep the world from rotting.
I hope this post was valuable to you, and I hope you're able to take away from it. Thank you for reading.
Tl;dr: I recomend reading it, but providing value is crucial in helping you succeed.
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