When I first read a lot of the advice from places like Seddit, my initial reaction was to think that I had to be fake in order to impress women and other people. I thought that things like teasing people, not caring when people shot me down or gave me shit, and limiting myself to small talk were completely opposite to the person that I am.

Recently I had a thought that has given me a new perspective, and I wanted to share it with you guys. If you go to a foreign country, you can't just expect everyone there to speak your native language. If you're going to live in China, you should probably learn Chinese. It is both foolish and selfish to expect them to cater themselves to the language that you happen to know already. Seduction is no different.

Like it or not, human beings have a language ingrained in their DNA. Body language, voice tone, outward attitude, and all of the other shit everyone harps on about here are the words. When you change these behaviors, you're not changing who you are, you're learning how to present the awesome person you are using the language that people already know (whether they know they know it or not).

TLDR: You don't have to change who you are, you need to tell it to people in a way that they understand. Seduction is a language.