I'm a fast person. I walk fast, talk fast, think fast, work fast, etc. Talking can be especially problematic because I often end up thinking faster than I can talk and my mouth can't keep up and I sound like an idiot. After discovering seddit and trying to improve my skills with girls and general social behavior, slowing down has been one of my biggest problems. I have gotten a little better at it though.

A click of Reddit's random button led me to an interesting place today. /r/asmr is a subreddit dedicated to videos and sound bytes of things that make your spine tingle. Some can be a bit odd, but many are just people talking with slow speech. I think that these videos can provide good examples of how one should slow down to become more sensual/mysterious. Learning to make a girl's spine tingle from talking to her would be a very useful skill.

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