If you lurk around here long enough, you're going to notice something in common with all the top guys: they all talk about teasing girls. It's either overt ("I was teasing this girl") or a running theme ("this girl had a hat on and I told her it looked funny"). However, it is noticeable and an important part of pickup.

Teasing is most closely associated with what we know as "flirting." Although there is something to be said for batting eyelashes, strong eye contact, etc., teasing is the ultimate flirt. Think about sex: she loves it if you take her to the brink, then stop, then take her to the brink again, then pull back. She'll be BEGGING you for more. Thus, the purpose of teasing is sort of a push-pull.

Here's an example, a girl is sitting alone. You walk up. "Hey, you look like the life of the party over here." Sly smile (do not forget the sly smile so she knows you're joking).

Here's another. A girl says she went to some school. If it's good (Ivy league), you say, "Oh, I may have heard of it." wink. If it's some unknown or a state school, you give her shit for it. "Oh, the Ivy leagues of state colleges!" Remember to stay jovial.

Teasing basically equals giving a girl shit. Imagine she comes over to ask you for a cigarette. Give her a look. Imagine a girl is trying to push past you in a club. Say, "Hey, Hey! Easy there!"

The best way to get better at teasing is to go out every night and TALK TO GIRLS. Don't talk to them like a high-school nerd hitting on the hot girl. Talk to them as friends, as equals. Maybe even a little above (remember that YOU are the value). Unless you're doing direct game, you're going in friendly. Note though, that there is a place for teasing in direct game, too.

Hopefully this will help some guys going out this week. Tease them, fellas! Girls love that shit.

(Disclaimer: if done wrong or incongruently, you WILL get blown out. It's ok. Just remember to keep it light.)