...and treat everyone the same.

Guys, I cannot stress this enough. This is, to me, the absolute number one thing that cannot be ignored when working your way through inner game. Just get out there and, I don't care who you talk to, talk to EVERYONE. Garbage man, cheerleader, granny, kid with a balloon, teacher, you talk to EVERYONE. You are a VALUE GIVER. You do not seek anything from anybody. People are happy to talk to you.

A quick illustration. At a bar Saturday night. Some guy sort of pushed me out of the way. Because my value is from within, I did not make a big deal out of it. Turns out, he was the secret bouncer and about to kick someone out.

On my way out of the bar, I talk to the undercover bouncer. Tell him about how he pushed me out of the way (again, jokingly. I am the yacht). We talked about it for a bit, he apologized, and we talked about how he is the undercover bouncer.

Fast forward to about an hour or two later. Back in the same bar. The undercover bouncer sneaks in behind me. I say, "you're really sneaky." We talk about some shit for a bit. He tells me how the "place becomes a shitstorm, in a good way" about 10, 10:30. He says he sees everything. He says, "See that blonde girl right there? Hottest girl in this radius. She does well here. And she's easy to talk to. If you go talk to her, you can go home with her in a couple of nights."

Boom. Instant friend, instant wing, instant protection. And all it cost me was being an outgoing value-giver.