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| 6 | [FR] Clubbing, aka teenager learning basics and having a blastIf you don't interact with a girls friends they will not trust you and try to get the girl away from you. The girl obviously likes you so all you have to do is have a little fun with her friends.. Basically get them to accept you and you'll be golden. From their perspective you just came up and started kissing their friend (creepy) A 1 minute interaction with them and you're the new cool guy she just met (awesome) Good work! | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 11:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Clubbing, aka teenager learning basics and having a blastDisagree | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Seduction in a small town?Damn that's on point. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 10:04 PM |
| 1 | High School seduction/r/highseddit | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Pick up is for NERDSLol | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 03:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Day game on the Ferry.Not oneitis necessarily but just being clingy towards them. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 10:18 PM |
| -1 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.Hey man, this is great content for beginners and I'm happy for your success. That said I want to motivate you to keep growing. You got laid and forged some relationships, but the ultimate goal is to become a natural. Talking to girls shouldn't take effort, it should become part of who you are. Having success using canned openings, planning kino and analyzing conversation is like leveling up; yeah you got somewhere, but you must keep pushing yourself to harder levels to improve. Imagine you're a … | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 10:16 AM |
| -8 | What to say when she says "I have a boyfriend"... My friend stubert pulled this one out the other day and I thought it was pretty goodShut up | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 06:50 PM |
| 4 | I Have a Party In 2 Hours Please Help me.Definitely go, but have no goal but to have fun. Especially at such a young age there is no pressure to hook up, it's all about outcome independence. Just have a good time and good things will happen. | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 07:20 PM |
| -6 | Some shit test I've had.Up vote for the skateboarding. I would rather skate than talk to that girl any day ha | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Solo clubbing guide to leaving with a girlGod it's awkward when girls tell you you can't dance.. Shit sucks | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:27 PM |
| 3 | What is your Kino strategy? I need guidance!This should be a natural thing, not a robotic action to use. If you like the girl you'll want to get closer emotionally and physically. Learn to recognize the right time to touch and how to, then let it happen | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 03:15 PM |
| 2 | A pretty good Yahoo! article on seduction and connecting with people. Lots of good tips that I haven't heard before.This is the content I like, it genuinely makes you a more likable person, which only benefits you, in seduction and all life. Thanks much | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 03:48 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)How do you deal with a girl that's depressed? It seems high energy people turn them off, but being low energy isn't ideal either. I want to show her fun and happiness, but still use game and close. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Simple primer on winging - Lots of beginners ignore it, but it's so freaking importantThis community needs more posts on winging!! | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 04:16 AM |
| 2 | How is my texting game? Be as critical as you want.Good in general, but two big mistakes I see 1 if she sends 4 texts in all caps don't ignore her, capitalize on that opportunity. You can still make your point to have control without waiting a day 2 she asked you an open ended question of how she can make something up to you, especially when you hold the frame.. Fucking do something about it! 100 answers better than text me tomorrow come to mind. Don't fret on past mistakes, just push for an face to face interaction asap | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 03:15 AM |
| 2 | What happen to the neg theory?It's the same thing but people get the wrong idea with the word neg. you want to get the girl frustrated in a funny way, not just be a dick to her | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Is this video just pure luck? Or is it fake? Or scripted?Thanks for posting this, but it was for the wrong reasons. Post this cause its good content, not because it's fake or not | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Sticking point: ADD fidgeting. Its a bad habit but hard to catchI wasn't nervous in the conventional sense, but it seemed like I was always looking for something to talk about or play with, I couldn't just sit and talk. Hopefully as the girl and I become more comfortable it will go away. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep a friendly relationship with girls?Thanks for the good advice, its my new goal to make a few more friends. At this point it has been hard for me to just stay friends, it seems my interactions are so much pointed to hookups(I'm in college and don't have long relationships) Everytime a girl comes around who would be a good friend I either end up hooking up with her or losing contact. Time to find the right medium! | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 07:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] HB7 - My successful first approachM: Do you want to kiss me? W: No What then | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 05:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR] HB7 - My successful first approachThats impressive my friend. Because this is a community and you are still learning, you need some tips! Never ask her for a kiss, you are leaving the NO option on the table. Don't give her a chance to reject you; Take what you want. This has a better success rate and also is more attractive. Good job! | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 07:07 AM |
| 1 | The best tip for beginners.My best advice is to find a buddy. Preforably a bigger pimp than you, then the 2 of you can sarge it out. A wingman and supporter makes it 1423487238461298347 times easier than going alone | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain eye contact to me?The best way to learn is through experience, so set some goals for yourself. Try to become comfortable looking into peoples eyes as they look back. Start slow, when you are having a conversation, especially if you or the other person is explaining something, look them in the eye for as long as you feel comfortable. Over time you will keep looking longer until eye contact is natural for you. Once you reach that point you can start using eye contact with strangers or try to push for sexual tension… | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA.How do I look attractive? I mean you're just asking for that one | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 12:20 AM |
| 23 | [FR] Hilarious situation at a nude beach turns into a threesomeThis isn't even an FR.. its an erotic story /Seduction and /nofap are starting to hurt my priorities | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Deep Rapport.Thanks for the feedback, this is a great base to begin with. One worry I have is that by bringing these topics up I feel like I will just keep talking about myself and the other person just sitting there. I don't want it to be a one sided conversation. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 01:14 PM |
| 5 | [Mini FR] Freeze outs work because she wants it to work.Nothing is worse than wondering if you are a rapist the entire time you are having sex... bad memories | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I have trouble being likeable.Thats why I made this post haha. Although you are correct, I didn't post this to get criticised. It would benefit me to recieve feedback about how to change this behavior to become a stronger pickup artist. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Question: Why is it generally discouraged by Seddit to tell a girl that your into her?If you are going to do that don't ever do it over text... thats a horrible idea | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How do I transition from mere pickup to a relationship?Use your skills to keep her interested. Try to be spontaneous, that's what usually lacks in long term relationships. Keep flirting and teasing and you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 05:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR] AFC night outYou went out to attract girls, which isn't how to attract girls. Just go out and have fun and enjoy yourselves. When you meet a girl just include them in the fun. | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 01:44 AM |
| 2 | I am a bit boring and hate flirting.I can see what you are doing here, I used to feel the same way. Whether you want to admit it or not, you have too much pride to do flirt and dance. You don't want to ruin the image you have of yourself or embarrass yourself. I used to not have many friends and I didn't want to jeapordize the ones I had so I never left my comfort zone. You need to realize that this mindset is holding you back. It sounds like you hate the idea of flirting, it just seems sick to you. I understand fully that feeling… | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 01:38 AM |
| 3 | What's the appropriate time to wait between texts?I used to freak out about this and plan out my texts (hahaha) but now I find myself forgetting about the conversations and returning hours later. If you have time or aren't busy fucking text her. If you are doing something important to you, bitch can wait. | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 04:10 AM |
| 0 | Perpetually out of state. Lacking motivation to practice my game. How do you get motivated?You are bored with acting fake and different than your personality to try to get with women. It is totally understandable. Take a break. The best part of this is you can deploy the skills you learned in every social interaction you are in for the rest of your life. You will always have this knowledge and it is at your disposal even if you don't want to use it right now. Try it out in a few months and see what changes. | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 04:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 10 from school, flawless facebook gameShe's my girlfriend now. | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 01:02 AM |
| 4 | [FR] How I was Kidnapped by Three Girls <LONGPOST>Hell yeah dude. I thought this would be another guy with nothing to do and how he failed at sarging, but it turned into a great feeling and inspiration for me. Fun shit always pops up and I can't wait for the next time it happens to me! | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Using a suit to "peacock"There is a difference between being the best dressed in the room and going overboard. As long as it is close and you have a strong reality you should be good | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you build rapport through text?Just try to build bonds with the girl, its hard to do but try. If it doesnt work just stop texting and try again next time | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you build rapport through text?Haha well you need to build some bonding shit.. Its hard to explain and harder to do, an example would be better help. I was texting a girl, and she said I remind her of a wolf. Throughout the conversation I ended up making a date with her for the next full moon, a inside joke about us being werewolves and gave us a subject to talk about. Its all about getting closer with the girl, but just avoid pointless texts. If its not working just stop texting and try again the next time | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 08:22 PM |
| 3 | How do you build rapport through text?If the texting conversation is initiated already talk to her. Other wise text her maybe one time over the 3 days. You can talk back and forth, try to build it up to some sexual talk. As soon as she says something not worth replying too or the conversation goes south, just stop texting. Don't prolong the interaction too long. you live a busy life interesting life and don't have time to waste texting remember? | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 06:22 PM |
| 1 | God damnit, I don't know what to do when a girl grinds her body against mine.Dance with her? just move back and forth with her and grab her waist. after a while you can fist pump or grab her hands in the air. Rub her sides and get into the danceing. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I know exactly what my sticking points are. How do I fix them?That your goal, just push your boundaries until you feel comfortable. It will take a while but if you work on it you will make progress. Escalating should be the fun part | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 06:16 PM |
| 2 | I just struggle to understand girls...Treat them like a friend, a little cousin. You don't need to think about sex or sexual stuff, just have a good time with them. When the time comes you need to push yourself to do what you did with your girlfriends in the past. Once you make the first step it get easier | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 12:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First Date K-Close… As A Fat, Balding, Ugly DudeI'm not going to even say lose weight. It's one more challenge you can get past, and if you can do that it will only boost your confidence more. People expect a guy like you to be insecure and if you aren't, they will know you are really special | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 04:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Charity PUA?You are an amazing person. Watch that guy brag to you tomorrow about being better than you at pick up hahaha | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 03:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally growing some balls! Beginner's report.Talk to girls that are there, not just you friends. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 03:34 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Noticing some holes in my game. Looking for critique.Nailed it. Completely. Selux you should really think about what he said, it is exactly what went wrong. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 03:25 AM |
| 2 | SEDDIT PODCASTAt some point you should go over how to be a good wingman and what to expect from a wingman, I want to help my friends out but don't know how | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 05:05 AM |
| 1 | A Good LTR vs. The Single Life... What are your thoughts Seddit?I had this same dilemma a while ago. I didn't want to leave my girl but it itched away at me for months and made the relationship hell. I never knew what I wanted at any point for months which was terrible. Eventually I just broke up with her. I felt shitty for a while, but I was already feeling shitty in general so once that went away I now have what I wanted. It feels pretty good being free but then all the problems of single life you forgot about come back. Feeling lonely, girls flaking and y… | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 04:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Met up with a fellow Sedditor to go sarging. Tried the apocalypse opener.Haha thanks. It seems so easy in theory, I feel like I could say it so easily. In the situation its so different its hard to deliver it correctly ha | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 01:07 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Met up with a fellow Sedditor to go sarging. Tried the apocalypse opener.I can tell the apocalypse opener wasn't going to work. I think the key is to only bust it out when you are in peak state. Think of those times when nothing is happening, you are just sitting there for a second thinking about the moment and it is just amazing. You are on top of the world, you could seduce Michelle Obama if you wanted to. Thats the time to just say the line like you are asking for a lighter or the time of day. Only then you have the confidence and delivery for it not to matter wha… | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 11:01 PM |
| 1 | [LR] It ain't over before the fat lady sings.. HB-6/7.. Could not stay hard...www.reddit.com/r/nofap | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Dear men of Seddit, can you tell me the meaning of this:There are just those girls who don't seem friendly, and you know you are going to get blown out if you don't have good game or are nervous. This guy was most likely intimidated to cold approach you. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 11:57 PM |
| 4 | [FR] The Apocalypse Opener.In the FR he really didn't attempt a close, which is what I don't understand. He bailed on the first girl and couldn't get a number of the second. If he just stayed with the girls he would have fucked them | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Getting and keeping a LTR using Seddit's approachThis shit needs to go to /bestofseddit you are a god, and this is the reason I follow this subreddit. Please keep posting even though you are in a relationship. You can post frs or tell about stuff you learned, just as long as I get more!!!1 | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How do i get rid of reaction seeking mentality? What is the best way to start with?Don't jump through others hoops. Do shit for you, do whatever is the most fun for you. If it is talking to the girl then that is fine, but do it to entertain yourself. If you have that mentality girls will notice. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 05:01 PM |
| -1 | What is the good "Why are you so cocky?" shit test answer?Because i'm so good at it. Funny cause your are being cocky about it. Its all about amplifying | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 09:45 PM |
| 3 | "Why haven't we f**ked yet?"First one just stay strong in your reality. You heard me. Would be a good response, you stay firm but don't push it farther that way. and second this is the beginning to a playful conversation at the least, just keep the joke up and see what happens. If she is receptive to that keep pushing the limits | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 01:51 AM |
| -2 | [FR] 10 from school, flawless facebook gameThere are many reasons this is helpful. It shows how I got past AA and used what I learned to get close with a 10, which is most of the FRs on here. Also people say facebook game doesn't work and to not do it so I was clearly showing and explaining how I used it to achieve my goals and how it is a viable option and shouldn't be swept under the rug. I understand that you don't agree with me on this but that is your opinion, but stopping others from using this post to their benefit isn't in the go… | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 02:48 AM |
| -3 | [FR] 10 from school, flawless facebook gameA. I barely ever go on facebook and never chat on there. We were just having a playful conversation that didn't end. B. I am perfectly capable of closing 1 on 1 and have done it many times in the past, and am currently texting the girl about logistics to come over, this was last night. | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 01:36 AM |
| 1 | What's the balance between being an asshole and an AFC nice guy?I see what you are saying, but this girl 1. took all my jokes seriously 2. thought I was stupid for saying obvious stuff 3. later told me to be a comedian I replied that means so much coming from ms. Nosenseofhumor Its not like I just said you have no sense of humor, it was all in fun and we both got a laugh out of it. We both know its not super mean in context and it helped me pass a shit test, when you were just talking about your dick. which doesn't make you an asshole but can affect how othe… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 04:10 AM |
| 100 | I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time...Dude, you asked a random girl what she was listening to. You did it. I'm sure she didn't respond much, I wouldn't if I was jamming and someone talked to me. What more do you want? Just keep doing what your doing on a consistent basis and sooner than you think you'll be achieving your goals. Look at it like this, you are training for a marathon, you run 1 mile and you say why can't I just run the whole thing WTF?!?! The thing is you just ran a mothafuckin mile, while all the fat fucks sat at home… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 04:05 AM |
| 2 | What's the balance between being an asshole and an AFC nice guy?Say something to a girl that a nice guy would NEVER say. Not horrible but not the nicest thing you can say. Girls like the assholes because they don't care what she thinks of you and you are confident to say it. The key to not be an asshole is after you say the mean thing, don't be like yeah fuck you bitch if she takes it bad. For an example the other day I told a girl she had a terrible sense of humor. Her reply was thats kinda mean.. An AFC would be like oh sorry..... But I treated it like a s… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to become a less boring person?Learn to juggle, learn to solve a rubiks cube. Learn how to give a good hand massage. Learn to flip your hat and catch it on your head. Shit like this makes you interesting and is awesome to bust out at a party and raise your value while making you the life of the party. Do this a few times and people will never know how many cool things you know | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 08:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Kino’d girl in churchI torrented it, worked fine. Don't have the link though :/ | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 02:42 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Kino’d girl in churchRSD is a great thing for seduction, I don't know why people are hating on it. They have a few longggg videos that break down seduction to the deepest levels, and they seem to have figured it out. I'm on about 17 of 20 hour long videos of the Blueprint and its blowing my mind haha | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 06:05 AM |
| 10 | [FR] The Art of Jealousy and BlackOut’s Kiss GambitWhen the drinks come I fake hand her the drink and instead call ThunderShower over and give it to him. hahahahahah your a dick | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 04:17 AM |
| 3 | [FR] New Years in Times Square HB10 F-Close 18y/o modelNo just say ok, keep doing what she lets you. She will get hornier and hornier and then try again. 90% of the time she will give in after 1 or 2 tries. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Good response to "nice voice"Don't learn each response separately, learn the confidence and wittyness to naturally have a good response. Seems more efficient to me.. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 08:27 AM |
| 3 | [FR] K-close through 2 gatekeepers,including an ex-boyfriendHell yeah! Your doing it right dude good job | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 06:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] but not much too tell, I need to figure some stuff out.It has the full organ system of the body lined up and all of it labeled, people liked it haha | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 04:41 AM |
| 2 | How do you find the line between confidence and arrogance?Confidence is on the inside, the idea that you know you can get that girl, you know you can achieve your goals. Then you go out at show it, and you don't falter or are scared. You are confident in your decisions and your ability. Arrogance is more like bragging your confidence. You try to win people over by telling them your achievements, but confidence is not told, it is demonstrated though your life. Actions speak louder than words. | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 04:51 AM |
| 7 | [FR] First in a long time. Nightclub. F-closed as a wing-man... sort of. Strange LMR.Try to lead more, it seems like she was making all decisions and you were just following her around. MAKE her want to fuck you. When she says show me, fucking pick her up and fuck her, she wants you to take control. | /r/seduction | 24/12/11 09:35 PM |
| 4 | [FR] First FR, cock blocked, first cold approach ever, weird night overall.Don't say your hot. Just say confidently, hey my name is X. guarantees it works 90% more. Think of it like this. If you are indifferent with every interaction, you would only listen or pay attention to something that is interesting or holds your attention. You can say anything as long as your delivery and appearance intregues the girl into listening to you. From a point where how you act defines success or rejection, saying those lines are the worst thing you can do. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 04:18 AM |
| 9 | [FR] First FR, cock blocked, first cold approach ever, weird night overall.I'm getting sick of hearing people say, Hey I think your cute and wanted to say hi. Fuck people its like your screaming IM EXACTLY THE SAME AS EVERY OTHER GUY AND NOT UNIQUE IN ANY WAY. Spice it up once in a while | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 03:52 AM |
| 0 | [FR] My first true pickup.It was all really smooth, thats impressive if you are just starting out. I don't think you should've freaked out so much about her religious views, you could've played it cool and made a conversation out of it. You shouldn't change how you feel to get the girl, don't be scared to challenge her, it's a turn on for you to have values and be confident about what you believe. Overall you did good | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How to fix a bad first impression.I'm sorry if this comes out mean, I am only saying this to help you. Talking to girls in high school is so easy!! They don't matter, at all. No girls matter. There is a whole school and they are already in the mood to talk. It's not like a cold approach to someone you've never seen before. From experience, girls most likely know who you are, they are waiting for you to talk to them. It is the easiest thing to just suck them into your reality and have a strong polarity, and she will willingly fol… | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What's a girl to do?hahaahha thank you my friend | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 04:38 AM |
| 6 | Going lone wolf in 2 hours, any quick tips?I think this is the subreddit for you douchebag. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 03:55 AM |
| 16 | How do I game and deal with depression and loneliness?Fucking work out. I don't care how you feel about it. If you aren't getting girls you probably have enough freetime. Go tomorrow and lift for about an hour. Work your arm, chest, back, legs, and abs at least a little bit. get sweaty. When your done, you have the greatest feeling ever. Its completely authentic and not fake happiness, you just feel on top of the world. Also having a good body with help with attracting girls so you are improving your life X2 | /r/seduction | 11/11/11 02:15 AM |
| 1 | The Virgin Dilemma...HEY! I respect your values, and I understand how you feel. I want to help you, and let you experience what you want. You said it yourself though, girls move fast and it will be hard to accomplish this. So what you need to do is keep your values, but tone them down a little bit. Lets be honest here, you will realize soon that holding hands for your first time won't be a mindblowing first step that you will remember for the rest of your life, the girl you are with will be what you remember. You ne… | /r/seduction | 02/11/11 04:26 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Green EyesIt makes sense in theory but that could be used as an excuse to never approach. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 01:04 AM |
| 99 | [FR]Met a girl who I shared a cab with. Everything went amazingly.T-T-T-THATS MY BOY! | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 04:01 AM |
| 2 | wow, things around here have really improved!/r/trees arrived, UPTOKES FOR EVERYONE! enjoy | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 03:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out for coffee with a girl. (x-post from /r/UniSeddit)You pretty much said everything you did wrong correctly, so there isn't much to tell you. The fact is you know the concepts but you need to gain experience and learn how to use the knowledge naturally. Just keep doing what your doing, build your confidence and you will reach your goals soon. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 07:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Second FR. The importance of not having asshat friends.Good job my friend, and damn I hate trying to text girls when i'm baked. Fuckkk that | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 06:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Day 2: Update and Success [BR Pull Guy]Damnnnnn I would be salty | /r/seduction | 09/10/11 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Talk to everybody...Maybe its the fact that I don't want to be friends with those people. Is that still bad? | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Talk to everybody...I know this is true but think of it this way, when you are nice to all the weird nerdy kids and now they say hi to you everyday in school? Then all the people you haven't talked to yet see you with them..I know you guys are going to say it doesn't matter but I have a few of these people already and I don't feel like making the number bigger | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to say Thank You!haha too bad the seed blows, 0%!!!!!! | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to say Thank You!oh wow hahaha didn't see my next message. Thanks bro! | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to say Thank You!eh i doubt it | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Just wanted to say Thank You!Where can you find it? | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What's worse???Still over thinking this. It's a big problem for many guys, and not just about girls. People have troubles with everything it's just about how you get past it. It's alot simpler than you think. A way I can relate to this was losing my virginity. In high school all my friends had done it and it was really bugging me on the inside and I couldn't get over it. It was really hurting me all around and it was all I could think about. Why hadn't it happen am I that ugly? whats wrong with me? But once it… | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 05:25 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???I know this won't help at this point and won't do much for you but all of these problems will fade and confidence will come with success. Nothing will change if you don't work at it. You need to go out and talk to women. Do it tomorrow. TOMORROW. and come back here and tell me how it went and we can go from there | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 04:49 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???This is all inner game problems, and honestly its all in your head I think you've overthought this for way too long. In your future you will look back at this and laugh. For now, the only way to move forward and nut up and just go for it. If it goes bad, you at least have the satifaction of trying something for once, and at this point you can only move forward. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???Alright i'm really trying to help you out here, how old are you? I think for you to get out of this cycle you need some success. So I don't care if you don't feel like it or you get mad. Go to a club or coffee shop depending how old you are, and hit on a girl, get her number and kiss her. You will feel like a boss and go from there. If you get shut down or it doesn't work, its just practice until it happens. You have to ignore all your feelings and keep going until it happens because thats the o… | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???I don't really understand but I would just say try to stay away from couples if you are feeling this way, and try to get in the mood if you are going to sarge. Once you reach some success these feelings should dwindle quickly | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 10:49 PM |
| 3 | [FR]My first time putting theory to practice, positive experienceyou bastard......good job. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:55 PM |
| 2 | How do I start a conversation with the hottest girl?...[HELP]Go up to her with a smile and say something along the lines of staring at me enough? haha and go from there like your talking to an old friend | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Where did I go wrong?crazy bitches man.... | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you say "I'm still a virgin" without losing value?No one really answered your question, and passing the shittest is probably what you should do, but if you are really worried about how to tell her without losing value just phrase it like I haven't let anyone take it from me. Or something along those lines. Don't say I'm STILL a virgin, make it seem like a choice. Also if you do this it won't be weird when you suck in the sack, she will be understanding | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:25 PM |
| 2 | My recently revelation on importance.Imo I dont't think whatyour doing is that bad as long as you arent a robot about it, and I think it will just get more natural with time and experience | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What's worse???I understand what you mean, just try pregaming with your friends to get in a great mood and then going out to get girls, and if your not feeling it just do something else so you stop feeling that | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:07 PM |
| 1 | My recently revelation on importance.What you were saying at the start isn't being outcome dependent, you are just too focused on picking her up. Being outcome dependent is trying too hard to make every girl work and not accepting a blowout | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:36 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???Probably better to have done it at one point, so you have some experience. On the second point, I would say work on your inner game, and abundance mentality so you stop feeling those things. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting beyond the number close by getting over a bad rookie habit.....don't do one night stands but you want to stay single? Why are you hitting on girls then? | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How to build comfort?generally in my mind is to lay off the escalation and some more beta moves, try being sweet and cute while still building attraction. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 01:08 AM |
| 1 | One-itis Creeping Back Into My LifeI think your fine in this situation. You aren't close to friendzoned, and you've only talked to her once. Oneitis is the biggest problem when the attraction is only way. You just need to hold back your thoughts about her and keep your abundance mentality. It seems like you did a great job opening and building comfort and attraction so you got this! | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 01:05 AM |
| 41 | Just got rejected... but god damn if I didn't try!AWWWWWWW YEAHHHHHH this my nigga right here | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Getting "In State"The first few times, you can't make it happen. you just need to be in that mood. Once you figure out what makes you feel like that it is easy to get back in that state of mind. For me its always different. Once I stared into the sky and just imagined all the fun, exciting expierences I have waiting in my future, I breathed the night air and it made me feel so good I was on top of the world. A common way to get in state to work out and dress well, and after some time you realize how good you real… | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 05:35 AM |
| 5 | Expectations, Comfortability - Or why you only get 2 dates and friendzoned, and a [FR] on doing it rightThis is all gravy in theory, but what happens when after the first few times you invite her with your friends, and you want to start messing around, she says I thought we were friends? Although I can see where your coming from you are setting yourself up for failure. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 11:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] “Ahhh it’s no big deal. You could use the exercise.”. Oops.damn good fr | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I need help.then don't hit on girls! go to the party, otherwise you just make it worse and worse. talk to people you are comfortable with. make some guy friends, have a good time! you will make more friends and that will boost your confidence. you need to start somewhere with seduction so just get comfortable talking to people in general. And also if girls see you having fun with the guys they will want to talk to you.Let them approach you and you can sweep them off your feet. GOOD LUCK BE|RO! | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 02:59 AM |
| 1 | On texting.Use texting to show the stuff that makes you busy. Otherwise they wouldn't even know so whats the point? | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:22 AM |
| -2 | Cut the crap - no more schitckrepost | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 04:25 AM |
| 5 | LTR Seduction for PUAsi've been waiting for this | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 03:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Super cute girl, aggressive successful K-Close, aggressive fail further escalation, a small little bonus cherry on topdammnnnn thats a killer dude, im sorry for you. if she was really drunk then there wasn't much you can do about the friends, they are just being good friends. if it's still a problem try to bring her somewhere to do something harmless, then once isolated your good to go | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Solid Gamefuck that was smooth. almost too smooth.... | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 07:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Super cute girl, aggressive successful K-Close, aggressive fail further escalation, a small little bonus cherry on topi cant be sure on any of this i usually do what feels right. just make sure you are on your game that day, surround yourself with good people you know and make sure your appearance is good. make your self desirable and work your magic, obviously there is potential there so let it happen. | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 05:33 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Super cute girl, aggressive successful K-Close, aggressive fail further escalation, a small little bonus cherry on topyou are learning well my young padawan.... | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 06:13 AM |
| 1 | I hate posting this... Someone help me.This isn't anything i've heard or thought of, it's how i naturally have always done it, so it will feel right. When you are hugging, and it feels like the right time for a kiss, try and put your chin on top or her head. Hopefully you are tall because this move makes it easier to move to touching foreheads, and almost touching noses. Stare into her eyes the sexiest way you can think of and if she looks back at you without moving, then kiss her. if she doesn't or looks away then don't. No chance o… | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 05:34 AM |
| 8 | This should be the #1 mandatory reading for AFCs: why you shouldn't chase women and be a "nice guy"this kind of article is way too overboard. what hes saying is way to extreme, its true that you shouldnt chase and everything he just went to far. i don't agree with the second half of it | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Questions from a "weak", "boring", and "predictable" man regarding social circumstances.I think your thinking way to much about other guys, don't compare your self to others. Look at yourself and why you are a person women want, that will help with your confidence. Also, it other guys don't really matter when you are one on one with a woman. Just worry about what you do and how you act once you are talking with a woman and if you do that right, none of the other guys will matter. | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Would anyone like a subreddit of text conversation transcripts of flirting and talking with girls?I was about to post some skype chats i've had, but I realized we talked on the mike most of the time. :0 | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 03:54 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 25 invitationsThanks for this FR, it's inspiration for me | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 02:31 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Making a Pivot, our Foursome Story100 internets for you, my friend. | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 07:52 AM |
| 2 | INTRODUCING SEDDIT HOMEWORKsounds like a plan. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 01:56 AM |
| 2 | How is this at all sustainable?We got a MOTHERFUCKING GENIUS right here! | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 05:54 AM |
| 1 | No such thing as a stupid question?thanks for the help, i was thinking a little more specific, like how can i change the seduction from picking up girls at clubs to getting dates and hanging out? | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 01:48 AM |
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