I am 28 . I have been wanting to this girl at work for quite sometime and got a chance to talk to her a few weeks back. The first evening we chatted, I went back home and spoke to her and took her out for a coffee and then we went for a bit of drive and then we kissed the second and third day. Things were just fine and she had to leave to the city for about 10 days and I missed her quite a bit and both of us messaged each other that we missed each other.

She came back to the city where I recieved her and then you know it was all good and just after two days she suddenly takes out this topic of relationship and says she doesnt want it she doesnt want any of it. She feels we are in a relationship. She just wants everything to end. I was at her desk a few minutes ago and she asked me to delete her pictures from my phone. It hit me very very hard so much than previous days. I genuinely and sincerely liked this girl and she did too I guess but that all changed in just 4 days.

I have been having a hard time eating sleeping and working and talking to friends too. I have known her for about 20 days but have been talking to her every single day and on top of that see her every single day at work. It getting difficult by minute. I have read about 50 articles on oneitis but nothing seems to help me. I just have lost my fucking mind. Is it my mind ? Heart or hormones ? I have no idea. She hasnt been avoiding only I guess because we work at a same place and sit a few seats apart. She is good looking very good looking, I workout 5 days a week and I am not that bad off but somewhere I feel so hurt that how things change in a matter of days.

So many questions about what did I screw up ? Did I occupy too much of her space ? Did I say something that turned her off ? Was it something I did ? And all she has got to say is it isnt something I want.

Just trying to get it off my chest. I suddenly feel all alone. This is not me. It started so well and just went downhill for reasons that I dont even know.