Hey, this will just be a short post on being positive in your interactions. Sometimes it becomes easy to become bitter or negative. However, if you hold a positive attitude, things generally work out more in your favor.

I make this post because of an experience I recently had. I was seeing a girl whos ex bf was still in the picture. They eventually started hooking up again, and she, predictably, cast me off. Now, I could have been upset, bitter, mad, all those things. But I held my "I'm a happy person with a solid base" frame and just went with it, knowing giving her my negative emotions would have not done her or I any good.

The law of state transference is a very powerful tool that we should all recognize. If you are exuding good vibes, others around you internalize them. They then associate these good feelings with you, again, very powerful.

A few nights ago, after months of not being with this girl, she hits me up. We talked about our month long fling, and she said she was impressed with how I dealt with her ending things, even apologizing about how she did it.

Remaining positive facilitated reviving relations with her. Reacting negatively and being sour around her when we weren't seeing each other would have made this impossible.

So, in the face of adversity, smile and let the positivity reign. Trust me, you will be rewarded for it.