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I never implied it was yours. My point is that we do not come to TRP for happiness. We come for raw, unbiased truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 05:40 PM
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No. TRP is more about accepting the truth. We are not happy. We are not here to become happy. We will never be happy. We are here for the truth and to accept reality as it is, without a comforting filter.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:44 PM
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No. Don't live your life with the purpose of writing a good CV that might satisfy a future employer - do shit for your own good.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:37 PM
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I feel helpless and it pisses me off. She's coming over again tonight, and if I haven't found a solution it might as well be the end of it. In Denmark it requires doctor's permission, and I don't know anyone who has viagra if I wanted it. Does it make you more self confident, or are just the same with a proper erection?
/r/seduction09/04/16 11:31 AM
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I disagree. You should stand up to your values, not to the point of offending them onto others but definitely never allow anybody infringing your own self worth and ideals. It will create more conflict, but afterwards you will be proud to have stood up to what you believe in.
/r/seduction06/02/16 04:42 PM
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This is spot on. I recently caught feelings for a girl, but by wanting to keep my values straight, I nexted her because of her flakes. What I didn't know was that she was very stressed and cried herself to sleep. She felt something, I felt something, and we both lost it because I nexted her. She told me exactly as you mention that I shouldn't expect to be her top priority early in the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:08 PM
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I recently stepped a bit back from TRP, and answers lile these make it clearer than ever that that was a huge mistake. Thanks. It's that I could easily replace her, which is against the fundamental values of TRP.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:07 PM
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She has probably found a better dick than me, but she contacted me saying that she is moving to another country by New Years, wanting to meet up. I guess the baking leads her to wanting my attention again.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:05 PM
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I was probably too uncaring. She said it wouldn't be a problem because "i could get any girl I wanted", but I told her it doesn't mean shit when it's not her. This was after the breakup, though.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:02 PM
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This is spot on. She has given me wildly different reasons, leading me to think that her true reasons are far from what she has told me. I honestly believe my abundance mentality was what made her attracted to me in the first place.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:00 PM
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There might be some truth to that. Recently I have turned down my vulnerability, because girls don't need to know everything. The thing is, all the girls I date know about who I am. This leads them to not wanting 'another girl' to be 'crossed off the list'. How in the hell am I going to be vulnerable about this and pass her tests? The girl I'm currently dating is not just another one, but I can't seem to find a way to convey it to her.
/r/seduction18/10/15 08:34 AM
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Others see me as way more experienced than I actually am.
/r/seduction18/10/15 08:29 AM
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I am known as a total fuckboi, so not really.
/r/seduction17/10/15 10:14 PM
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I'm in the EXACT same situation, except I'm the one stopping - something is holding me back and I have no idea what the fuck it is.
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:56 PM
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I mostly plan 3 women near the same time. I always got a backup, and therefore a flake means nothing. If she is shit, I get her to leave and another one arrives. If she's cool, I let her stay.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:53 PM
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I've met an elderly women who lives down the road a few times on my way to college. Every time we talk, she says I'm a pretty young man. I know I make her day when we talk, and she makes me feel great, and we're having conversations with value. Last time we greeted we hugged, and it felt natural as fuck. Can't recommnend it highly enough.
/r/seduction31/05/15 04:37 PM
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This is why TRP is great. We can take something dominant in society, deconstruct it and face the truth of it without being butthurt. Stay red.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 07:56 PM
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Hell no. I was talking about being honest with your intentions, not your life story. Faking it until you make it is lying to yourself because you can't face the cold, hard truth.
/r/seduction28/02/15 11:01 AM
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Use your ability to not give a fuck to your advantage.
/r/seduction02/01/15 09:15 PM
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This is not being stressed enough in subs like this. Very important advice.
/r/seduction30/12/14 12:33 AM
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I deleted all of my games a year ago, cold turkey. You'll have much more time on your hands to develop yourself, while resetting your dopamine system and desiring social interactions.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:46 PM
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I stopped a year ago. I'll never look back.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 06:22 PM
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I understand how it may look like BS. I was more thinking of it as if it was okay to entetertain yourself with when doing monk mode.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 03:30 PM
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Not if they are putting the ones they are interested in on a pedestal. This will help these men get over it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:02 PM
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This will help men who are having problems with investing too much in individual girls.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:00 PM
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I am suggesting not investing your entire faith into a single girl.
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:59 PM
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See my edit.
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:58 PM
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So because I didn't want a girl, I was treating her like garbage?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:54 PM
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I'm so filled with hate right now. What the 'feminists' have done here is wrong on every fucking level.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 02:13 PM
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Be careful finding with finding excuses not to do stuff. So what if nobody does it? The ones you're talking to will appreciate and remember you for it. Go out and help make a change. Stop giving a fuck whether other people do it or not. You're a man, stand up for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:57 PM
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No.
/r/seduction27/10/14 06:23 PM
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Jealousy at its finest.
/r/seduction27/10/14 06:21 AM
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Yeah, thank you. I'm not a native english speaker and wrote it all quite fast. You're right, it might be good for me in the long run - I'm just not sure about doing it when it's about the girls. I'm 16, so you're probably older indeed.
/r/seduction26/10/14 06:56 PM
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My bros left that night and he was the one I got left. He is not a bro of mine anymore, though we still are great friends when it comes to inviting each other to parties etc. The thing is, other than that he's awesome. In my circle, we like fucking each other up. I did have a word with my bros before going out about being each other's wingmen. Unfortunately he came later and wasn't part of that talk. I guess I got some teaching to do, if not he will still be my friend. He just won't be near me w…
/r/seduction26/10/14 06:02 PM
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I was recently with a girl planning a hookup. Then my buddy started blocking me by telling I was a virgin etc. Don't even give your buddies who do this the chance to do it again.
/r/seduction26/10/14 04:28 PM
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Exactly. In thw club though, it's just all about spotting that lonely cute girl who came for the reason as you.
/r/seduction19/10/14 08:08 PM
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Stop hitting it. Not doing it for a month will increase testosterone by 50% and make shit easier with women.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:29 PM
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Same here. Clubs are shit for meeting women though, at least for me. I've actually met more people right outside the club than in it.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:28 PM
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Say it confidently without giving a fuck. If she's gonna fuck you, she is. It belive it'll turn her more on than off, as long as you remain confident.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:27 PM
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That's awesome. Remember not to put her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:25 PM
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You know what I tell myself? What is my life worth if I can't even be myself? The more weird and outgoing you are, the more adventurous and positively they think of you. Later they give no shits because you're just being yourself. Live your life. Stop giving a fuck about what other people think, build your personal empire and pursue your goals. Life is too short for anything else. The more outgoing and openly speak your mind, the more likely you are to do it again and express yourself freely. Yo…
/r/seduction19/10/14 05:41 PM
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I have the problem of not being able to go for the kiss. It pisses me off and I don't know what to do about it
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:24 PM
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They aint any better than you. Wake up
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:22 PM
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How did you like Korea and the women there? I'm thinking of going.
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:16 PM
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Thank you for making it. I used the original for a guide to my life for the past weeks. I made a it a poster and wallpaper. It gave direct ways to improve my life. Thanks.
/r/seduction17/10/14 02:26 PM
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I haven't even felt a need to share it With anyone. We're doing this for ourselves, nobody else.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:51 PM
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Well he did go around many different places which might explain.
/r/seduction10/09/14 02:56 PM
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Taxi?
/r/seduction30/08/14 09:43 PM
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That's actually very likely
/r/seduction23/08/14 07:21 PM
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I'm excatly the same way, just the other way around. Would like to know more about this.
/r/seduction23/08/14 01:36 PM
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This doesn't have to be a negative thing. Enjoy it and make it your armor. In the end you will truly appreciate it. People often look for something to blame. Just look at it with a positive mindset.
/r/seduction20/07/14 11:30 AM
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They say they want a nice guy who is always there for them, doing everything. If you're like that, you'll never get her. They say what is ethically correct, not what they are subconsciously attracted to. Be independent.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:00 PM
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That is what I've always been saying. Most of the time however, they end up thinking I don't like them because I don't want to text too much.
/r/seduction29/05/14 09:54 PM
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It was.. But in the end she followed us. Mind games.
/r/seduction29/05/14 06:55 PM
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Yeah, they completely changed my view on Germany. Haha. I'll try.
/r/seduction29/05/14 06:24 PM
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Definitely not. A lot of people get this wrong. The video is telling you that staring at your menu to avoid awkward situations, and stalking your news feed while going to a café is bad. Quite a lot of people are getting upset, mostly because they misinterpret what the video actually is trying to say.
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:11 PM
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I've had the same feeling. But just by interacting, you're showing the ones who might be judging you, that you're way more fucking awesome by actually talking to her.
/r/seduction03/05/14 06:28 PM
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NoFap completely saved my fucked up life, and made me happy again. It is what gives me the will to live an awesome life. I had no future, but NoFap changed everything. I'm 15. Cold showers increases your testestorone levels dramatically and gies you an epic feeling of alpha and not giving a fuck about anything because you are on top of the world. /r/Sex is just great advice, just like /r/seduction.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:31 AM
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/r/NoFap /r/sex /r/coldshowers
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:18 PM
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