Hi Seddit.

I left you a while ago, after completely transforming my life from absolute shit to living a dream. However, I need your help right now. Recently, after fucking around with so many women to the point of borderline unhealthy, I have found a girl with LTR potential.

However, my sexual anxiety seems to persist. I'm at a very young age, so this shouldn't be a problem. I have looked deep within myself, stopped not to give a fuck. Last night i was fingering her and rock hard, but the second it comes to sex, my dick goes flaccid. She says she wants me to fuck her, but I tell her I can't.

I am able to relax, have talked to her about the problem, and researched it a lot, doing everything from muscle exercises to meditation. I simply can't find the solution - and I refuse to give in to viagra as a band-aid solution.

I haven't cared much about the problem until now - my girl became very sad last and started blaming herself, angering me because it isn't her fault. I now realize I need to solve this.

Has anyone else experienced this? What helped you?

TL;DR: I feel helpless and need methods to solve my performance anxiety.