Opened ended questions

aquarium628462 · 2020-01-30T10:23:48+00:00

Talking to/getting to know people is not a job interview. Don‘t prepare questions or a script cause you probably can‘t stick to it anyway without being awkward.

Here‘s a thing you should remember: Assumptions > questions

Instead of: do you go to the gym? Say: you look like you hit the gym regulary.

If she does she‘ll feel appreciated. She does it to look good and you noticed that.

If she doesn’t go to the gym she still assumes she looks good and you basically complimented her.

Of course your assumptions should somehow reflect her looks and behavior. The above example is probably not useful for chubby girls.

Also don‘t do it all the time. Just let the conversation flow.

ASinlifestyle · 2020-01-30T10:28:54+00:00

"If you had to choose between playing every instrument, speaking every language or visiting every country which would you choose and why?" Not necessarily the definition of open ended but it works for me often.

ntipz011 · 2020-01-31T04:54:50+00:00

Anything is fine as long as it's not too weird. You can know what's not too weird with experience, but usually your common sense is enough. Just gotta be confident and say the first thing that comes to your mind.

Title	Opened ended questions
Author	MaMe91
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	January 30, 2020 9:12 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ew2ok5/opened_ended_questions/
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