There is this cute girl on instagram, that braid people’s hair. I dmed her n arranged a “session” with the purpose to build a bond which later on would make it easier to set up a date.

Long story short the session went well we both had a great time n I got my hair done. I need to mention that I’m a bit older then her, and usually act more “good guy” around younger girls n specially if I like them idk why, nevertheless.

I got most of her socials because of the session n we talked back n forth, for a couple of days. But got the sense that I was chasing her n it wasn’t reciprocated. She’s quite popular n I noticed she settin a lot of notification doing the session. Sometimes I would text her to start connecting up, but she didn’t keep it alive or wanted to start her own up.

Which got me thinking I don’t usually like to pour heart out, especially if I’m older then the girl.

I invited her out for ice cream a week after our first encounter in evening we talked. She sat on me, I probably talked a bit to much but it seems like she enjoyed the overall date.

I just don’t understand why she doesn’t text me at all? Do I really gotta do all the work?

TL:Dr: I found this cute girl she shows interests irl,but hardly texts. I don’t wanna get played if she’s not worth it basically. We have a 3rd date a week from now but sure if I should cancel it, how can you date someone you don’t talk to throughout the day?